Here are two very, very different videos… about the power of love. Bring the tissues cause they will bring tears, the kind that come when we see the power of the heart… enjoy!

 

I want to tell you about some great new reading material that will support you and re-kindle your inspiration as you work on having the relationship of your dreams.

It’s a new book by Kurek Ashley, one of Australia’s hottest motivational speakers, called How Would Love Respond?

I’m reading it right now – and really enjoying it.  He begins with a description of an incident in his life while he was working as a stuntman on a Rambo film.  It’s fascinating reading!  And then he goes into how that incident changed his life and what he learned from it.

Even though the principals are all the same (acknowledging abundance, choosing our life’s path, etc.) he’s got a totally new way of expressing it – some new twists and turns on the subject.  I've been kind of skimming over some parts of it… but I'm LOVING Chapter 8 on energy and relationships.

As you move along your path toward creating the relationship of your dreams, you’ll want to be reading supportive literature like this.

http://www.magicrelationship.com/kurekrecommend

"Kurek you are truly the embodiment of the word 'outstanding" –ANTHONY ROBBINS, motivational speaker

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"I knew in my heart that with Kurek's help, I could win gold in the beach volleyball on Bondi Beach, Australia. His enthusiasm, love, passion and positivity is contagious and infectious. How Would Love Respond? addresses how to deal with fear, doubt, self-esteem and anything else that stands in your way to achieve everything you have ever dreamed of. It is a must-read for anybody that has a dream."–NATALIE COOK, Olympic Gold Medalist, Sydney 2000, Beach Volleyball

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'How Would Love Respond' became an International Bestseller in its first week of launch, reaching
No.1 Amazon Mover & Shaker

No.4 Barnes and Noble Self Improvement

No.8 Amazon Hot New Release

No. 7 Bestseller Barnes and Noble

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"You can never be too kind or too fair. This warm, inspiring book shows you how to practice love in every experience to achieve real peace and ultimate joy."— BRIAN TRACY, International, speaker, author and consultant on sales and entrepreneurship

  

 

Paul Sterling… a Relationship Coach will be teaching the Loving Relationship Bootcamp with Kristin Denton.

See You Soon,

Paul

PS Make sure to get your copy of our Outrageous Relationship Roadmap Quiz…

http://www.magicrelationship.com/askbootcamp

 

 

Get your Relationship Roadmap here! Take this eye-opening, heart-starting, in-depth, 7-page relationship quiz with your lover… or alone.

To get a free copy of the Relationship Roadmap 7-Page Quiz… just click here…

http://www.magicrelationship.com/askbootcamp

With Passion, Purpose and Possibility, Paul Sterling

 

Yahoo… it is finally ready… we hope! Check out our new Relationship Questionnaire and let us know how you like it.  You get brownie points if you find spelling or grammar errors, but you get major relationship points if take the Bootcamp Training and apply what you learn!

The qustionnaire is a bonus for people who put their name on the Prioirty List for the Loving Relationship Bootcamp.

If you want to know more about the Bootcamp and the Priority List, go to

http://www.magicrelationship.com/askbootcamp

There is limited space and we are only accepting people to the Bootcamp after we review their questionnaire, so put your name on the priority list NOW at….

http://www.magicrelationship.com/askbootcamp

With Passion, Purpose and Possiblity,

Paul Sterling
 

 Steven asks:

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How do I handle it when my wife breaks the "rules" it seems trying to implement anything she keeps twisting the topic to something else, making things my fault, ultimately blaming everything on me, but stating she doesn’t do what she is doing. I'm working on this alone. My wife is "done" and unwilling to try anything, she left so we are separated but she hasn’t asked for a divorce. I want to save us, I feel she's killing me for trying to.“

The important thing to remember in a situation like this is that you’re trying to connect to the other person’s feelings and needs – always the feelings and needs from the 4 Step Communication formula  – no matter what they say to throw you off.

Using the Magic Relationship Method takes a lot patience and persistence.  It requires stepping back from a situation and the words being directed toward you so that you can see the overall situation. 

When your wife turns the discussion back to how wrong you are, ask her, “Are you feeling ___ because you’re needing ___.”  As you’re learning the 4 Step Communication Formula, you’ll probably have to keep your lists of the feelings and needs right in front of you during one of these conversations.  It’s difficult to remember all of the feelings and needs AND keep your perspective at the same time.  Here’s a link to the lists – look at the right hand column of the page:  http://www.magicrelationship.com/articles.htm .

I’d like to give you some empathy for the pain you must be in around this situation.  You say “I feel she’s killing me for trying to work on the relationship.”  What is the true feeling here?  What you’ve given is a thought – that she’s trying to kill you.  I’m wondering if you’re feeling some anxiety, disappointment or frustration?  Do any of those hit home for you?

And then I’m wondering if — around your efforts to save the relationship – you’re needing understanding, acknowledgement and maybe some appreciation for how hard you’re trying?

Anyone really willing to be in a relationship… especailly a great one - has to be a little bit crazy.

With that in mind, let me introduce you to your Bootcamp Drill Instructors:  Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton.

They say a picture is worth a thousand words… so here are 5000 words worth!

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Kristin & Paul in Hawaii 2007

Why the photos?  We wanted you to get to know us better if you're thinking of applying to be part of the Loving Relationship Bootcamp…

The Bootcamp will be a fun, exciting, heart opening adventure - that will challenge you and help you grow.

 Paul Kayaking in Glenwood Springs - May 27, 2008 

As you can guess, this Bootcamp isn't for everyone.  It's going to be pretty tough.  That's why we are only accepting 30 couples so that everyone gets special attention.

Scroll down to the blog entries below to read more about the Bootcamp and to pre-register.  We're looking forward to hearing from you soon.

To Your Relationship Success,
 

Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton

Magicrelationship.com

 

Paul (as passenger) flying the
friendly skies of Mexico this spring…

 

Kristin and Paul on Memorial Day Weekend
out for a motorcycle adventure….

 

 

 

 

 

 
Paul Playing Crocodile Dundee Down in Costa Rica

 Interested in making your relationship powerful, enjoyable and fulfilling?  Then read on…

Recently Paul and I were reviewing the results from the Magic Relationship Survey. We noticed that a lot of people were saying that their situation was ‘urgent – need to do something about it now’.

And we want to say, "Thank You!" Thank you for letting us know what you need…. that you want and need an approach to resolving your relationship issues NOW — and in a do-able, reliable, and re-producible way — that will help you through even the gnarliest issues.

So, in order to share with you our awesome communication system that will do just that – and to present it in the most effective way possible — we’ve created the Loving Relationship Bootcamp.

http://relationshipbootcamp.wordpress.com/

You know what they say: “When the going gets tough, the tough go to bootcamp.” (I know somebody must say that….)

It will be a teleseminar training over 4 weeks and 7 sessions that will give you the tools to bring back the love, intimacy and understanding to your relationship.

However, this Bootcamp won’t be for everybody…

More on Get On the Priority List for the Loving Relationship Bootcamp!