Magic Relationship Method Blog

what is the one thing you can change that will change
your relationship?

there are really only 3 main options:

• the first thing people try and change is their love
• when that doesn’t work - they will change lovers (separation or divorce)
• the last and most effective thing to change… change the way you communicate with your lover.

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication and you will learn:

• the 5 most common relationship-wrecking communication mistakes: discover these and you can avoid upsets without having to avoid the issues
• the 2 reasons you don’t have what you want in a relationship: this will show you where to focus if you want a breakthrough in your relationship
• what intimacy is and how to get more it - starting today… or tonight
• and much much more….

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Part #2  

Part #3  

Part #4  

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

PS Registration ends July 7th… so if you are interested in more love, intimacy and understanding - with less conflicts, misunderstanding and upsets in relationship - call to save a place today. (970) 586-7734

July 17, 18 and 19 2009 Per person $695.00 Per couple $995.00

it can destroy your relationship and
screw up your life…

once it starts - it’s hard to stop…

if you are jealous, you know the
feelings..

feelings that can range from just a
mild attack with light anxiety… to all
out, kick your ass attack where you
can’t breath, your heart is pounding and
you are somewhat suicidal.

At times like that you can’t even
sleep and just lay there all night in
the fetal position running obsessive
movies over and over in your head…

not a happy place to be.

Or, on the other side - if you are
dealing with someone who is jealous, you
know, it almost doesn’t matter what you
say… or what you do… it just seems to
get worse and worse.

Isn’t it time to break the bonds of
jealousy and get back to a loving,
trusting an understanding relationship?

Listen in as I grill the jealousy
experts, Susie and Otto Collins, and get
them to reveal the 10 Biggest Jealousy
Mistakes… and… more importantly…
what to do about it.

Now the interview is over… you can hear it
by clicking on the play buttons below.

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Part #2  

Part #3  

Part #4  

Save your space now because I know
this is going to be a very popular call.

http://www.magicrelationship.net/jealousy.htm

To Your Jealousy Free Relationship,

Paul Sterling

Ps. Save your spot now and end
jealousy forever.
http://www.magicrelationship.net/jealousy.htm

what really wrecks relationships?

it’s not what most people think…

• it’s not affairs
• it’s not money issues
• it’s not jealousy
• it’s not a lack of love
• it’s not even the loss of passion…

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication…

Part #1  

Part #2  

Part #3  

Part #4  

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

Great Question…

Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a young and beautiful couple came to one of my relationship workshops. They loved each other very much…

But here’s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each other, their situation is hopeless. This couple had tried everything and the situation just got worse. No matter how hard they tried, their relationship problems just got recycled rather than resolved.

Sound familiar?

They had done their best, but nothing changed. They had hit a wall - run up against a Relationship Roadblock… And… there was nothing they could do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless, hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasn’t fair, they had tried so hard and loved each other so much and still, it looked like it was going to end in a painful divorce.

Their conversations often ended up with misunderstandings… misunderstandings that led to arguments… arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around on egg shells – avoiding each other and avoiding the issues…

Henry and Velina showed up at the workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and hopeless. They even announced on the first day of the workshop that they were going to break up. The only reason they were there was to be learn how to communicate better through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and Velina learned new communication tools and worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and upsets and heart-to-heart talks and breakthroughs. And by the end of the weekend they were communicating much more openly and honestly about their individual feelings and needs.

They went home and I didn’t hear from them for a while. And then one day I got this email from Velina:

You see… all relationships will eventually hit a wall… a relationship roadblock where the problems, misunderstandings and issues are bigger than ability to overcome them.  When you hit that relationship wall - things look hopeless. And then, the harder you try to fix things, the worse they get.

Isn’t it time to be able to bring back the intimacy and passion, to resolve conflicts quickly, to clear up misunderstanding before the feeling are hurt, to talk so you partner really wants to listen and understand you… and to listen in a way your lover wants to open up and talk honestly.

Check out this short video on The Turning Point: A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat.

Your Relationship Coach,

Paul Sterling

Find out more and save a space before it’s too late.
http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

Just got the great news from the twins
(more about them later)…

They have cleared the calender for the weekend
of July 17-18-19 at Gold Lake Spa and asked me
to come up and teach a weekend relationship
retreat.

Why should you care - this could be your chance to
turn your relationship around and get it back on track.

(see case study below from past participant.)

The Turning Point - A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat
in the Heart of the Colorado Rockies (35 miles from
Boulder CO.)

Now this is not for everyone, there is the cost of travel
and the course itself will be somewhere between $1,295
to $1,595 per couple…

The great part is the price will include food and
accommodations - the tough part is we only have
room for 21 couples and I am sending this info out
to 6,380 people this week.

It will fill up fast.

That’s all for now - many more details to come…
but if you are interested - please get on the early
notice list - you will be the first to get access to
the registration application (yes you have to apply
for this event) when we make it available.

Click here to get on this no obligation-early notice
email list….

http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

May Your Relationship Dreams Come True,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

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PS:Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a
young and beautiful couple came to one of
my relationship workshops. They loved each
other very much…

But here’s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each
other, their situation is hopeless. This
couple had tried everything and the
situation just got worse. No matter how
hard they tried, their relationship
problems just got recycled rather than
resolved.

They had done their best, but nothing
changed. And… there was nothing they could
do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless,
hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasn’t fair, they had tried so hard
and loved each other so much and still, it
looked like it was going to end in a
painful divorce.

Their Communication often ended up with
misunderstandings… misunderstandings that
led to arguments… arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around
on egg shells – avoiding each other and
avoiding the issues…

Henry and Velina showed up at the
workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and
hopeless. They even announced on the first
day of the workshop that they were going to
break up.

The only reason they were there
was to be learn how to communicate better
through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and
Velina learned new communication tools and
worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and
upsets and heart-to-heart talks and
breakthroughs. And by the end of the
weekend they were communicating much more
openly and honestly about their individual
feelings and needs.

They went home and I didn’t hear from
them for a while. And then one day I got
this email from Velina:

Subject: Good news

I just wanted to pass on to you the good
news. Henry and I have renewed our vows to
each other and reunited in marriage. We are
using the MRM tools [the Magic Relationship
Method] successfully and doing better than
EVER!

Thank you guys so much for your support.

I got the business cards too and will be
sure to pass them on.

We love you!
Velina

Click here to get on the early notice list
http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm