Listen in and discover how to build a connection of openness, honesty and trust using Fearless Listening and Compassionate Communication to create Courageous Intimacy in your love life.

Discover the secrets to transforming your love life inside and outside the bedroom, both physical and emotional intimacy.

And the 5 intimacy destroying mistakes most couples make…

with passion, possibility and purpose,

Paul Sterling

PS. to get the study guide/handout go to

http://www.magicrelationship.net/study

PPS. to get a copy of my new ebook – STOP… In The Name Of Love – A Compassionate Communication Workbook for Couples, go to

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook

The 5 Destructive Communication Habits That Destroy Relationships.

Last week I did a one hour, interactive conference call/teleseminar covering what these 5 habits are… and how to change them before they destroy your relationship.

It was a great call, but do to the short notice, a lot of people missed and emailed asking for the recording of this call…

Ask and it is yours… at least some of the time.

With Passion, Purpose and Possibility,

Paul Sterling

PS if you want to get the ebook and bonus mp3 intereveiws
http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook-new.htm

Here is the call

Holidays can be filled with the stress of unexpressed expectations… creating all sorts of hazardous emotional ‘mind-fields’ and communication pit-falls.

As a relationship communication coach, I understand – it’s not your fault if you can’t read your lover’s mind… but there is something you can do about it – help is on the way!

… as you may have heard, I’ve shut myself away up here in my cabin in the Rocky Mountains to meet my deadline:

… rewrite and update my eBook on relationship communication so it can be released before Valentines Day!

Somewhere in the mix of too much coffee, the exhilarating momentum of getting it done & a feeling of overwhelm from the piles of notes, changes & reminders to self to breath/eat/stretch…

a totally crazy idea hit me…

… why not give away a 1,000 copies of my new eBook – as a totally free gift – to my friends and family before Valentines Day.

Okay now, I got to get back to editing so if you want to get the full story (and the reason I’m doing this)…

just click on this link to get the skinny & reserve yourself a copy today!

http://www.magicrelationship.net/valentine

With passion, purpose and possibility,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

…the clock is ticking! So just do some clicking:

http://www.magicrelationship.net/valentine

there are really only 3 main options:

• the first thing people try and change is their love
• when that doesn’t work – they will change lovers (separation or divorce)
• the last and most effective thing to change… change the way you communicate with your lover.

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication and you will learn:

• the 5 most common relationship-wrecking communication mistakes: discover these and you can avoid upsets without having to avoid the issues
• the 2 reasons you don’t have what you want in a relationship: this will show you where to focus if you want a breakthrough in your relationship
• what intimacy is and how to get more it – starting today… or tonight
• and much much more….

Part #1  

Part #2  

Part #3  

Part #4  

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

PS Registration ends July 7th… so if you are interested in more love, intimacy and understanding – with less conflicts, misunderstanding and upsets in relationship – call to save a place today. (970) 586-7734

July 17, 18 and 19 2009

Per person $695.00 /Per couple $995.00

They have cleared the calender for the weekend
of July 17-18-19 at Gold Lake Spa and asked me
to come up and teach a weekend relationship
retreat.

Why should you care – this could be your chance to
turn your relationship around and get it back on track.

(see case study below from past participant.)

The Turning Point – A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat
in the Heart of the Colorado Rockies (35 miles from
Boulder CO.)

Now this is not for everyone, there is the cost of travel
and the course itself will be somewhere between $1,295
to $1,595 per couple…

The great part is the price will include food and
accommodations – the tough part is we only have
room for 21 couples and I am sending this info out
to 6,380 people this week.

It will fill up fast.

That’s all for now – many more details to come…
but if you are interested – please get on the early
notice list - you will be the first to get access to
the registration application (yes you have to apply
for this event) when we make it available.

Click here to get on this no obligation-early notice
email list….

http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

May Your Relationship Dreams Come True,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

turn this into this

PS:Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a
young and beautiful couple came to one of
my relationship workshops. They loved each
other very much…

But here’s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each
other, their situation is hopeless. This
couple had tried everything and the
situation just got worse. No matter how
hard they tried, their relationship
problems just got recycled rather than
resolved.

They had done their best, but nothing
changed. And… there was nothing they could
do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless,
hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasn’t fair, they had tried so hard
and loved each other so much and still, it
looked like it was going to end in a
painful divorce.

Their Communication often ended up with
misunderstandings… misunderstandings that
led to arguments… arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around
on egg shells – avoiding each other and
avoiding the issues…

Henry and Velina showed up at the
workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and
hopeless. They even announced on the first
day of the workshop that they were going to
break up.

The only reason they were there
was to be learn how to communicate better
through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and
Velina learned new communication tools and
worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and
upsets and heart-to-heart talks and
breakthroughs. And by the end of the
weekend they were communicating much more
openly and honestly about their individual
feelings and needs.

They went home and I didn’t hear from
them for a while. And then one day I got
this email from Velina:

Subject: Good news

I just wanted to pass on to you the good
news. Henry and I have renewed our vows to
each other and reunited in marriage. We are
using the MRM tools [the Magic Relationship
Method] successfully and doing better than
EVER!

Thank you guys so much for your support.

I got the business cards too and will be
sure to pass them on.

We love you!
Velina

Click here to get on the early notice list
http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

thanks for your great questions and feedback.

now in case you missed it – or just want to listen
again – you can click here for the whole interview
on enhancing intimacy and sacred sexuality.

http://www.instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=6779964

Check it out today – not sure how long it will be
availible.

Your Deidcated Relationship Coach,

PS. keep your eyes open for the next relationship
expert interview in this series…

… that is why I laughingly call it ‘MALE-I-TUSS’

But hey, don’t get me wrong, plenty of women make this mistake too.

Check out this 5 minute video and leave your comments at the bottom
of the page…

Click here to view the embedded video.

To your relationship success,

Want to know how to bring the passion back into your
relationship… and the other 4 mistakes to avoid?

click here now to check out my relationship ebook

Or…

Just make it a lot better?

This video was supposed to come out before
Valentines Day…

oops.

I had a major hard drive crash and spent a
week without my computer.

(talk about withdrawal symptoms – AHHHHH,
7 days without my laptop made me realize -
yes I am addicted to a machine).

Anyway here it is, a very short, but very
important video on the greatest gift you can
give your lover.

Hint: it’s free and no… it doesn’t have to
happen in the bedroom!

Apply this secret today and your lover will thank you tonight.
(yeah i just found my insert smiley face buttom – for a while
they will be everywhere.)

To your relationship success,

PS. make sure you don’t miss out on any of
the Rock Your Relationship – Video Series,
just put your name and email in the box in
the upper right hand corner and we will
let you know when the next one is ready….

previews of coming attractions.

• Intimacy Doesn’t Start In The Bedroom
• The Senuous Art of Listening to Transform Your Love Life
• The 5 Pillars of Passionate & Compassionate Communication
• and more….

PPS. You can also email me your relationship questions
and I will be choosing a few key ones to answer each week.

I cover what you can change and how to change it to make things
better in your relationship.

Bring back the love, intimacy and understanding to your relationship today.

Your Relationship Coach

PS. make sure you sign up to get earliy notification
of the next relationship saving video…

Just enter your name and email in the upper right hand
corner of this page.

We have been off and on together for five years, how can I become the center of her life? We were engaged four years ago, what happened? She can’t even say she loves me on her own. What’s going on?

Question 8 – 1:52 minutes

How can I become the center of her life?

Paul Sterling

PS: to get more information on bringing more love, intimacy
and understanding to your relationship check out my instantly
accessable relationship book.

http://www.magicrelationship.com/ebook5.htm