Dear Lovers,

Have you ever wondered what it would take to increase the romance and passion in your bedroomā€¦ and take your sex life to a whole new level?

How to bring sacredness and intimacy to your love making?

Menā€¦ how do you harness and control your sexual energy?

Womenā€¦ how do you set your sexual energy free with delicious abandon and experience loving ecstasy?

INTERESTED? Great, keep reading.

Join me, Paul Sterling (relationship coach) and discover what Tantra is and how you can use this ancient secret art of sacred sexuality.

I invite you to eavesdrop, as my guest, on a live teleseminar. I will be interviewing world renowned Tantra Teachers, Charles Muir and his beloved, Leah Alchin.

I have asked them to reveal some of the Ancient Tantric Secrets that you can use to super charge your love life and improve your skills and confidence in and out of the bedroom.

They have promised to divulge some powerful and simple tips on how to dramatically increase your intimacy and pleasure and wow your lover.

Charles Muir started the Oldest School of Tantra Yoga in the Western Hemisphere over 32 years ago and has trained over 30,000 students. His ideas on Tantra have been quoted in Wall Street Journal, Yoga Journal, and Esquire Magazines.

Charles and Leah have helped thousands of people who have been hurt, betrayed, abandoned, or sexually used in their relationshipsā€¦ turn their lives aroundā€¦ and go from having a closed down heart and a dysfunctional sex life, to having a loving relationship, with the ability to be an extraordinary lover.

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ask/

THIS CALL IS FOR YOU IF WANT TO KNOW:

* What Tantra is and how it can improve your sex life and relationship

* Where to find a womenā€™s sacred spot and what do once you get there

* 3 ways you can quadruple the length of your orgasm

* How to stop sex from feeling like an obligationā€¦ and get it back to feeling like a celebration of love and intimacy

* Several ways to create magical moments that instantly open your partnerā€™s heart and keep them smiling all day

* How to be a conscious single and attract your beloved the Tantric Way

* How to stop feeling like something is wrong with you just because no one taught you how to be a great loverā€¦ and how to get the best sex education you never got

Join us on this live Teleseminar, a conference call where you get to listen and learn from the privacy and ease of your own phone.

To save yourself a space, just click here and learn how you can listen in as my guest. On this next page you will get the call information (phone number, access code, date and time of call).

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ask/

DATE: April 4th
START TIME: 6:00 pm PST (9:00 pm East Coast Time)
END TIME: 7:00 pm PST (10: pm East Coast Time)

You will also find a place where you can write your most burning questions about Tantra, Sacred Sexuality or any other issue around sex. Charles and Leah will answer as many of your questions as time allows.

Live and love with courage and compassion,

Paul Sterling

Love, Intimacy and Relationship Coach

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ask/

PS. If you canā€™t make it to the call but want to know moreā€¦ you can get a Free CD that was recorded live. It is Charles Muir covering the basics of Tantra and some advanced tips and techniques.

http://www.freetantracd.com/

I started the hot water running. After only a few minutes the water
started backing up and filling the tub.

Damn, the drainpipe had frozen againā€¦ One of the frustrating
challenges of living in the cold (but beautiful) mountains of
Colorado.

As I got bundled up so I could head outdoors and defrost the
drainpipeā€¦ againā€¦ I’ve flashed on what I should’ve done.

Prevention is so simple.Ā  When the temperatures are get into the
teens outside all I need to do is run some hot water through the
pipes if each evening, before going to bedā€¦ avoiding frozen pipes and
hours of work defrosting them.

What does any of this have to do with your relationship?

Great questionā€¦ read on and find out.

Soā€¦ as I headed out the door, mumbling under my breath and wishing
I had just spent a few minutes in keeping the pipe thawed, I realize
how much this is like a relationship.

A few minutes of preventionā€¦ of gratitudeā€¦ can keep a small issue
from becoming a huge issueā€¦ and can prevent the freezing of the
emotional pipes between you and your lover.

Very often, clients wait the last minute to come to meā€¦ after the
pipes are frozen solid ā€¦ and love doesnā€™t even have a chance of
flowing at between them. At this point, it would take a blow torch to
defrost their pipes and solve their relationship problemsā€¦ but
luckily it’s not impossible.

So here’s my quick ā€˜Gratitude Exerciseā€™.

Do this exercise at least once a week, especially when it’s cold
outside so you can keep your relationship communication pipes thawed
and the love flowing.

Simply sit down with your lover, decide who’s going to go first,
and then who ever goes first is going to tell their partner three
things they are grateful for/what they appreciate about their lover.

Here’s an example: Joe and Sarah are having a tough day, in fact,
it’s tempting just to turn on the TV and turn off any chance of
connection, understanding and intimacy that night.

But Sarah decides she wants more from their relationshipā€¦ and is
willing to take the lead to get itā€¦ she grabs Joe by the hand and
leads him to the couch, saying ā€œI knowā€¦ let’s try that ā€˜Gratitude
Exerciseā€™ā€¦Ā  and I’ll even go first.ā€

Reluctantly, Joe settles into the couch next to her. His face looks
doubtful, but the truth is, he is actually intrigued by the idea and
skeptically hopeful about the outcome.

After all, she’s about to tell him what she appreciates about him,
rather than lecturing him on what he’s done wrong and how he should
change. Now thatā€™s a relief.

Sarah is a little uncomfortable to start with but fires away ā€œJoe,
you know, last week, when you took the kids camping and fishing with
youā€¦ and had to miss your bowling night to do itā€¦ They were so happy
and excited when they got home, filled with stories of their great
adventureā€¦ I was so proud of you as my lover and their father. It
really touched my heart!ā€

She then moves on to the second one. ā€œHoney, I’m afraid I haven’t
been thanking you for making the bed in the morning while I’m rushing
to get the kids to school and make breakfast. You have no idea how
that simple act makes me feel so loved and supported.Ā  Thank you!ā€

At this point, she can see the Joe is visibly moved and touched by
these first two statements of gratitudeā€¦ and she can see heā€™s even
looking forward to moreā€¦

Inspired, she says makes her final statement. ā€œI know this is going
to sound kind of funny, but I’d totally appreciate that you work out
at the gym several times a week. I love it that my girlfriends are
envious about how good you look.ā€

After sitting there and holding hands for a few minutes, they
switch and itā€™s Joe’s turn. When they were done, the pipes were
thawed and love is flowing through them easily.
Okay, now it’s your turn.
Grab your lover by the hand sit them down on the couch and give it
a try.Ā  Donā€™t worry about getting it right, JUST DO ITā€¦

With passion, purpose and possibility,

Paul Sterling
Your relationship coach

P.S. Iā€™m looking forward your feedback. Give it a shot and than
leave a comment below. Until next timeā€¦

PPS. make sure to check out my ebook on relationship
communication at: http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook

there are really only 3 main options:

• the first thing people try and change is their love
• when that doesn’t work – they will change lovers (separation or divorce)
• the last and most effective thing to change… change the way you communicate with your lover.

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication and you will learn:

• the 5 most common relationship-wrecking communication mistakes: discover these and you can avoid upsets without having to avoid the issues
• the 2 reasons you don’t have what you want in a relationship: this will show you where to focus if you want a breakthrough in your relationship
• what intimacy is and how to get more it – starting today… or tonight
• and much much more….

Part #1 Ā 

Part #2 Ā 

Part #3 Ā 

Part #4 Ā 

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

PS Registration ends July 7th… so if you are interested in more love, intimacy and understanding – with less conflicts, misunderstanding and upsets in relationship – call to save a place today. (970) 586-7734

July 17, 18 and 19 2009

Per person $695.00 /Per couple $995.00

They have cleared the calender for the weekend
of July 17-18-19 at Gold Lake Spa and asked me
to come up and teach a weekend relationship
retreat.

Why should you care – this could be your chance to
turn your relationship around and get it back on track.

(see case study below from past participant.)

The Turning Point – A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat
in the Heart of the Colorado Rockies (35 miles from
Boulder CO.)

Now this is not for everyone, there is the cost of travel
and the course itself will be somewhere between $1,295
to $1,595 per couple…

The great part is the price will include food and
accommodations – the tough part is we only have
room for 21 couples and I am sending this info out
to 6,380 people this week.

It will fill up fast.

That’s all for now – many more details to come…
but if you are interested – please get on the early
notice list - you will be the first to get access to
the registration application (yes you have to apply
for this event) when we make it available.

Click here to get on this no obligation-early notice
email list….

http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

May Your Relationship Dreams Come True,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

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PS:Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a
young and beautiful couple came to one of
my relationship workshops. They loved each
other very muchā€¦

But hereā€™s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each
other, their situation is hopeless. This
couple had tried everything and the
situation just got worse. No matter how
hard they tried, their relationship
problems just got recycled rather than
resolved.

They had done their best, but nothing
changed. Andā€¦ there was nothing they could
do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless,
hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasnā€™t fair, they had tried so hard
and loved each other so much and still, it
looked like it was going to end in a
painful divorce.

Their Communication often ended up with
misunderstandings… misunderstandings that
led to argumentsā€¦ arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around
on egg shells ā€“ avoiding each other and
avoiding the issuesā€¦

Henry and Velina showed up at the
workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and
hopeless. They even announced on the first
day of the workshop that they were going to
break up.

The only reason they were there
was to be learn how to communicate better
through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and
Velina learned new communication tools and
worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and
upsets and heart-to-heart talks and
breakthroughs. And by the end of the
weekend they were communicating much more
openly and honestly about their individual
feelings and needs.

They went home and I didnā€™t hear from
them for a while. And then one day I got
this email from Velina:

Subject: Good news

I just wanted to pass on to you the good
news. Henry and I have renewed our vows to
each other and reunited in marriage. We are
using the MRM tools [the Magic Relationship
Method] successfully and doing better than
EVER!

Thank you guys so much for your support.

I got the business cards too and will be
sure to pass them on.

We love you!
Velina

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