Anger is an emotion that gets an incredibly bad rap.
People are put into classes by the courts to learn how to control their anger. Kids are sent to their rooms until they can act ‘nice.’ Partners take great pains not to reveal their anger to their significant other for fear that they’ll be either a ‘bitch’ or an ‘abusive husband.’
Good grief, there’s a lot of pain, embarrassment and shame around this emotion!
But, do you know what? To even think that anger is ‘unhealthy’ is an evaluation that’s unfair and unproductive.
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All she wants to do is talk to me.
And all she wants me to do is listen… and enjoy it.
Let's turn things around, just for a second. It seems to be fine to say, "I feel used," "He just wants me for sex!" or "He just uses me as a sex object."
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This is a short introductory audio on the Magic Relationship Method (Compassionate Communication Skills for Couples). You can discover the how to avoid those stupid, petty and hurtful misunderstanding, upsets and arguments.
There is a communication toolbox you can use to:
Resolve conflicts confidently, compassionately and quickly.
Clear up misunderstanding in minutes.
Talk about tough issues without taking it personally or making it personal. In other words, no more attacking your partner or having to defend yourself.
Learn to talk so they want to listen and understand you.
Learn how to listen so they want to open up and talk about their hidden dreams and desires along with their fear and doubts.
Create more love, honesty, trust, harmony, support and understanding in your relationship starting today.
Remember if the only tool you have in your tool box is a hammer, everything starts to look like a nail. Get yourself a bigger, bad-er, bolder and more powerful communication tool box and you can create anything.
After listening to this 2 1/2 minute audio, go to www.magicrelationship.com
All communication is either an act of love or a cry for help.
Either our needs are being met and we’d like to celebrate that with other people, or our needs are not being met and we would like empathy from others.
This is one of the basic premises of Dr. Marshall Rosenberg’s communication theory, Nonviolent Communication (www.cnvc.org). And the characters in the hit TV series Desperate Housewives soooo beautifully demonstrate this premise.
Take the episode from season 2, “No One is Alone.” In past episodes, Susan has remarried Carl in order to use his health insurance for a surgery she needs.
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He doesn't listen anymore….I talk to him, but it's like he doesn't even hear me! Sound familiar?
When people sign up for our FREE SPECIAL REPORT at our www.MagicRelationship.com website, they have a chance to ask us any relationship communication question.
These questions have become an amazing list of things that are bothering people all around the world — ranging from issues around money, sex, and jealousy, to dealing with step-children, ex-lovers and in-laws.
There's a lot of consistency to the questions, and one we're seeing over and over again is this: "My lover doesn't listen to me anymore. How can I do to get them to listen?"
The Magic Relationship Method (MRM) is the communication method we teach and which we'll be describing here. You can read more about it by requesting our special report at the website listed in our bio.
MRM works by connecting and expressing the feelings and needs of both people in a conversation.
So, here's the question: "My lover doesn't listen to me anymore. How can I do to get them to listen?"
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