there are really only 3 main options:

• the first thing people try and change is their love
• when that doesn’t work – they will change lovers (separation or divorce)
• the last and most effective thing to change… change the way you communicate with your lover.

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication and you will learn:

• the 5 most common relationship-wrecking communication mistakes: discover these and you can avoid upsets without having to avoid the issues
• the 2 reasons you don’t have what you want in a relationship: this will show you where to focus if you want a breakthrough in your relationship
• what intimacy is and how to get more it – starting today… or tonight
• and much much more….

Part #1  

Part #2  

Part #3  

Part #4  

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

PS Registration ends July 7th… so if you are interested in more love, intimacy and understanding – with less conflicts, misunderstanding and upsets in relationship – call to save a place today. (970) 586-7734

July 17, 18 and 19 2009

Per person $695.00 /Per couple $995.00

it’s not what most people think…

• it’s not affairs
• it’s not money issues
• it’s not jealousy
• it’s not a lack of love
• it’s not even the loss of passion…

Listen in to this surprising interview about relationship
communication…

to find our more about

THE TURNING POINT: A RELATIONSHIP
REBUILDING RETREAT IN THE ROCKIES

just go to http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop-ttp.htm

See You Soon,

Paul Sterling

Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a young and beautiful couple came to one of my relationship workshops. They loved each other very much…

But here’s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each other, their situation is hopeless. This couple had tried everything and the situation just got worse. No matter how hard they tried, their relationship problems just got recycled rather than resolved.

Sound familiar?

They had done their best, but nothing changed. They had hit a wall – run up against a Relationship Roadblock… And… there was nothing they could do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless, hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasn’t fair, they had tried so hard and loved each other so much and still, it looked like it was going to end in a painful divorce.

Their conversations often ended up with misunderstandings… misunderstandings that led to arguments… arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around on egg shells – avoiding each other and avoiding the issues…

Henry and Velina showed up at the workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and hopeless. They even announced on the first day of the workshop that they were going to break up. The only reason they were there was to be learn how to communicate better through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and Velina learned new communication tools and worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and upsets and heart-to-heart talks and breakthroughs. And by the end of the weekend they were communicating much more openly and honestly about their individual feelings and needs.

They went home and I didn’t hear from them for a while. And then one day I got this email from Velina:

You see… all relationships will eventually hit a wall… a relationship roadblock where the problems, misunderstandings and issues are bigger than ability to overcome them.  When you hit that relationship wall – things look hopeless. And then, the harder you try to fix things, the worse they get.

Isn’t it time to be able to bring back the intimacy and passion, to resolve conflicts quickly, to clear up misunderstanding before the feeling are hurt, to talk so you partner really wants to listen and understand you… and to listen in a way your lover wants to open up and talk honestly.

Check out this short video on The Turning Point: A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Your Relationship Coach,

Paul Sterling

Find out more and save a space before it’s too late.
http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

They have cleared the calender for the weekend
of July 17-18-19 at Gold Lake Spa and asked me
to come up and teach a weekend relationship
retreat.

Why should you care – this could be your chance to
turn your relationship around and get it back on track.

(see case study below from past participant.)

The Turning Point – A Relationship Rebuilding Retreat
in the Heart of the Colorado Rockies (35 miles from
Boulder CO.)

Now this is not for everyone, there is the cost of travel
and the course itself will be somewhere between $1,295
to $1,595 per couple…

The great part is the price will include food and
accommodations – the tough part is we only have
room for 21 couples and I am sending this info out
to 6,380 people this week.

It will fill up fast.

That’s all for now – many more details to come…
but if you are interested – please get on the early
notice list - you will be the first to get access to
the registration application (yes you have to apply
for this event) when we make it available.

Click here to get on this no obligation-early notice
email list….

http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

May Your Relationship Dreams Come True,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

turn this into this

PS:Let me tell you a story.

Last December, a
young and beautiful couple came to one of
my relationship workshops. They loved each
other very much…

But here’s where the story gets weird.

You see, even though the loved each
other, their situation is hopeless. This
couple had tried everything and the
situation just got worse. No matter how
hard they tried, their relationship
problems just got recycled rather than
resolved.

They had done their best, but nothing
changed. And… there was nothing they could
do about it. They felt helpless, hopeless,
hurt, frustrated and disappointed.

It wasn’t fair, they had tried so hard
and loved each other so much and still, it
looked like it was going to end in a
painful divorce.

Their Communication often ended up with
misunderstandings… misunderstandings that
led to arguments… arguments that eventually
ended up with the silent treatment.

And both of them ended up walking around
on egg shells – avoiding each other and
avoiding the issues…

Henry and Velina showed up at the
workshop feeling pretty overwhelmed and
hopeless. They even announced on the first
day of the workshop that they were going to
break up.

The only reason they were there
was to be learn how to communicate better
through the separation.

Over the course of the weekend, Henry and
Velina learned new communication tools and
worked hard improve their skills.

They practiced like crazy. There were tears and
upsets and heart-to-heart talks and
breakthroughs. And by the end of the
weekend they were communicating much more
openly and honestly about their individual
feelings and needs.

They went home and I didn’t hear from
them for a while. And then one day I got
this email from Velina:

Subject: Good news

I just wanted to pass on to you the good
news. Henry and I have renewed our vows to
each other and reunited in marriage. We are
using the MRM tools [the Magic Relationship
Method] successfully and doing better than
EVER!

Thank you guys so much for your support.

I got the business cards too and will be
sure to pass them on.

We love you!
Velina

Click here to get on the early notice list
http://www.magicrelationship.net/turningpoint.htm

… that is why I laughingly call it ‘MALE-I-TUSS’

But hey, don’t get me wrong, plenty of women make this mistake too.

Check out this 5 minute video and leave your comments at the bottom
of the page…

Click here to view the embedded video.

To your relationship success,

Want to know how to bring the passion back into your
relationship… and the other 4 mistakes to avoid?

click here now to check out my relationship ebook

Want to know how to turn your relationship communication breakdowns
into breakthroughs?

How to bring back the love, laughter, intimacy and understanding… along
with all the rewards of doing that. 

• Why do i find it so scary to express how i feel especially when i think the other person might not like what i have to say. How can I express my feelings diplomatically and unstrained without fear of hurting or upsetting another?
   
• How or where you start to work on the trust and communication in a relationship when there has been cheating involved?
   
• when me and my husband communicate about a subject, he is always defensive i try my best not for it to be an accusation but because of his pass he always feels i’m attacking him as example (when you have timecould you help me to open my car door it is frozen and i tride alone but isn’t strong enough) he gets deffensive on anything i ask or suggest?
   
• I find everything runs smooth until my heart gets involved and when I feel vulnerable I need to call my guy more and know he is not going away. I also get more sensitive about other women and get jealous feelings. Generally this causes him to run in the oppositie direction. What is the best way to handle my vulnerable feelings and not push my guy away?
   
• how do we get over arguments and misunderstandings?
   
• How do you work on your marriage when you are living separately with no plans on moving back together?
   
• My boyfriend and I in our late 40′s and are both divorced (messily in both cases). We had been dating for 1 1/2 years and contemplating moving in together and were gradually moving my stuff in but he got cold feet, backed off and asked for more time. I moved all my stuff back out and we have gone back to dating for the last 6 months (and are enjoying our time together). I would like us to be more than just dating… How can I best help get us back on track for a life together?
         
• We have been together off and on for 5 years. How can I become the center of her life? We were engaged 4 years ago, what happened? She can’t even say she loves me on her own. Whats going on ?
   
• How do I best handle anger? 
   
• When there are 2 women in his life (when i used to be the only one) how do I get him back to commit to me and only me.

I was emailed this and when I stopped laughing, i realized how true it is…

I hope you enjoy this, and GAME ON GUYS…

Paul
your relationship coach

THE NEXT SURVIVOR SERIES

Six married men will be dropped on an island with one car and 3 kids each, for six weeks.

Each kid will play two sports and either take music or dance classes.

There is no fast food.

Each man must take care of his 3 kids; keep his assigned house clean, correct all homework, and complete science projects, cook, do laundry, and pay a list of ‘pretend’ bills with not enough money.

In addition, each man will have to budget in money for groceries each week.

Each man must remember the birthdays of all their friends and relatives, and send cards out on time–no emailing.

Each man must also take each child to a doctor’s appointment, a dentist appointment and a haircut appointment.

He must make one unscheduled an d inconvenient visit per child to the Urgent Care.

He must also make cookies or cupcakes for a social function.

Each man will be responsible for decorating his own assigned house, planting flowers outside and keeping it presentable at all times.

The men will only have access to television when the kids are asleep and all chores are done.

The men must shave their legs, wear makeup daily, adorn himself with jewelry, wear uncomfortable yet stylish shoes, keep fingernails polished and eyebrows groomed.

During one of the six weeks, the men will have to endure severe abdominal cramps, back aches, and have extreme, unexplained mood swings but never once complain or slow down from other duties.

They must attend weekly school meetings, church, and find time at least once to spend the afternoon at the park or a similar setting.

They will need to read a book to the kids each night and in the morning, feed them, dress them, brush their teeth and comb their hair by 7:00 am.

A test will be given at the end of the six weeks, and each father will be required to know all of the following information:
each child’s birthday, height, weight, shoe size, clothes size and doctor’s name. Also the child’s weight at birth, length, time of birth, and length of labor, each child’s favorite color, middle name, favorite snack, favorite song, favorite drink, favorite toy, biggest fear and what they want to be when they grow up.

The kids vote them off the island based on performance. The last man wins only if…he still has enough energy to be intimate with his spouse at a moment’s notice.

If the last man does win, he can play the game over and over and over again for the next 18-25 years eventually earning the right to be called Mother!

After you get done laughing, send this to as many females as you  think will get a kick out of it and as many men as you think can handle it. Just don’t send it back to me…. I’m going to bed.

Bring back the intimacy… starting today,

Paul Sterling

P.S.  Keep checking back here and we will showing you some examples of the questions that will answered on the free teleseminar on April 9, 2008

http://www.grill-the-experts.com/askyourrelationshipcoach/