Discover the secrets to turning you relationship around. Be HEARD, UNDERSTOOD and VALUED… Learn the power of conscious, compassionate and courageous communication with you lover.

and yes it is 10 MINUTES LONG… but hey, what if it could help you know what to do to save your relationship?

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Please watch this mind… and heart opening video… and then leave your comments below.

If you would like a copy of ‘The Turning Point In Your Relationship’ flow chart…  you can download a pdf by clicking on this link or on the image below.

http://www.magicrelationship.net/turning_point_in_your_relationship.pdf

With purpose, passion and possibility,

Paul Sterling

To get your copy of my new book on
compassionate communication for couples
called ‘STOP… In The Name Of Love’

click here...

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook

Have you ever noticed that the people you love the most, are often the most difficult to talk to?  Come discover a compassionate communication method that allows both of you to feel really heard, understood and valued… in any situation.

Picture how much more enjoyable your relationship would be… without the constant drama of conflicts… without the stress of painful misunderstandings…  without having to walk on egg shells… without the frustration of one-word, one-way conversations… when you can talk openly and honestly about almost anything…

On Sunday September 26, at the Spiritkeepers Event, I will be doing a one hour workshop. (this is in Boulder, CO at ‘The West Boulder Senior Center – 909 Arapahoe Avenue – for directions or more information go to: http://www.magicrelationship.net/spirit

you’ll discover how to:

… avoid the 5 common communication pitfalls that wreck relationships and replace them with healthy habits

… end the painful downward spiral some relationships get into and start bringing back the intimacy, understanding, and passion you desire before it’s too late!”

… listen so that your partner wants to open up and talk – talk so your partner wants to listen and understand you

… stop the painful  blame, shame and guilt game – and talk about important, stressful issues without taking things personally or making them personal

The key to a great relationship… is great communication… and when that communication breaks down – so does the relationship. In fact most relationship problems are really just communication problems. So if you want to improve the quality of your relationship, or in some cases: to save your relationship, the secret is to improve the quality of your communication…

Compassionate Communication For Couples Intro

I hope to see you there,

Paul Sterling

PS for more info: http://www.magicrelationship.net/spirit

The content is great – the recording quiet, much to my disappointment, isn’t perfect…

To get a copy of the STUDY-GUIDE for this call – go to:

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Listen, discover and enjoy,

Paul Sterling

PS  Please leave your comments and feedback below

PPS.       ABOUT THE SPEAKER:
Paul Sterling is a relationship coach, a public speaker
and the author several eBooks on relationship communication,
including “STOP… In The Name Of Love” “The 5
Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes” and “The 4
Steps to Instant Intimacy and Understanding”

OTHER LINKS: To discover more about the speaker and
communication secrets, check out these videos:

http://www.magicrelationship.net/freevideos

For info on my new ebook:

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook-new.htm

Stop... In The Name of Love -this is just few of the updates

Hey Everyone…

thanks for all your support and ideas for the new eBook.

to make it easier for everyone to participate, could you leave you feedback and comments below.

with passion, purpose and possibility,

Paul Sterling
your relationship coach

PS. I have included a sneak peek of some
of the changes going into this new eBook.

Once you’ve had a chance to read your copy,
please come back here and leave your comments,
suggestions and feedback below.

… that is why I laughingly call it ‘MALE-I-TUSS’

But hey, don’t get me wrong, plenty of women make this mistake too.

Check out this 5 minute video and leave your comments at the bottom
of the page…

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To your relationship success,

Want to know how to bring the passion back into your
relationship… and the other 4 mistakes to avoid?

click here now to check out my relationship ebook

I cover what you can change and how to change it to make things
better in your relationship.

Bring back the love, intimacy and understanding to your relationship today.

Your Relationship Coach

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Want to know how to turn your relationship communication breakdowns
into breakthroughs?

How to bring back the love, laughter, intimacy and understanding… along
with all the rewards of doing that. 

• Why do i find it so scary to express how i feel especially when i think the other person might not like what i have to say. How can I express my feelings diplomatically and unstrained without fear of hurting or upsetting another?
   
• How or where you start to work on the trust and communication in a relationship when there has been cheating involved?
   
• when me and my husband communicate about a subject, he is always defensive i try my best not for it to be an accusation but because of his pass he always feels i’m attacking him as example (when you have timecould you help me to open my car door it is frozen and i tride alone but isn’t strong enough) he gets deffensive on anything i ask or suggest?
   
• I find everything runs smooth until my heart gets involved and when I feel vulnerable I need to call my guy more and know he is not going away. I also get more sensitive about other women and get jealous feelings. Generally this causes him to run in the oppositie direction. What is the best way to handle my vulnerable feelings and not push my guy away?
   
• how do we get over arguments and misunderstandings?
   
• How do you work on your marriage when you are living separately with no plans on moving back together?
   
• My boyfriend and I in our late 40′s and are both divorced (messily in both cases). We had been dating for 1 1/2 years and contemplating moving in together and were gradually moving my stuff in but he got cold feet, backed off and asked for more time. I moved all my stuff back out and we have gone back to dating for the last 6 months (and are enjoying our time together). I would like us to be more than just dating… How can I best help get us back on track for a life together?
         
• We have been together off and on for 5 years. How can I become the center of her life? We were engaged 4 years ago, what happened? She can’t even say she loves me on her own. Whats going on ?
   
• How do I best handle anger? 
   
• When there are 2 women in his life (when i used to be the only one) how do I get him back to commit to me and only me.

I was emailed this and when I stopped laughing, i realized how true it is…

I hope you enjoy this, and GAME ON GUYS…

Paul
your relationship coach

THE NEXT SURVIVOR SERIES

Six married men will be dropped on an island with one car and 3 kids each, for six weeks.

Each kid will play two sports and either take music or dance classes.

There is no fast food.

Each man must take care of his 3 kids; keep his assigned house clean, correct all homework, and complete science projects, cook, do laundry, and pay a list of ‘pretend’ bills with not enough money.

In addition, each man will have to budget in money for groceries each week.

Each man must remember the birthdays of all their friends and relatives, and send cards out on time–no emailing.

Each man must also take each child to a doctor’s appointment, a dentist appointment and a haircut appointment.

He must make one unscheduled an d inconvenient visit per child to the Urgent Care.

He must also make cookies or cupcakes for a social function.

Each man will be responsible for decorating his own assigned house, planting flowers outside and keeping it presentable at all times.

The men will only have access to television when the kids are asleep and all chores are done.

The men must shave their legs, wear makeup daily, adorn himself with jewelry, wear uncomfortable yet stylish shoes, keep fingernails polished and eyebrows groomed.

During one of the six weeks, the men will have to endure severe abdominal cramps, back aches, and have extreme, unexplained mood swings but never once complain or slow down from other duties.

They must attend weekly school meetings, church, and find time at least once to spend the afternoon at the park or a similar setting.

They will need to read a book to the kids each night and in the morning, feed them, dress them, brush their teeth and comb their hair by 7:00 am.

A test will be given at the end of the six weeks, and each father will be required to know all of the following information:
each child’s birthday, height, weight, shoe size, clothes size and doctor’s name. Also the child’s weight at birth, length, time of birth, and length of labor, each child’s favorite color, middle name, favorite snack, favorite song, favorite drink, favorite toy, biggest fear and what they want to be when they grow up.

The kids vote them off the island based on performance. The last man wins only if…he still has enough energy to be intimate with his spouse at a moment’s notice.

If the last man does win, he can play the game over and over and over again for the next 18-25 years eventually earning the right to be called Mother!

After you get done laughing, send this to as many females as you  think will get a kick out of it and as many men as you think can handle it. Just don’t send it back to me…. I’m going to bed.

I was once told that the normal outcome of most communication is misunderstanding…
aboveis a case in point…

To avoid this type of un-nessicary upset and hurt feelings, make sure to check out our
5 Most Common Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes ebook…

Until next time,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

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