The Beatles were wrong…

“Sadly, Love Isn’t All You Need…”

I wish it was. Life… and relationships… would be so much easier if it were true. The very reason most breakups or divorces are painful is because they still love each other and the heartbreaking part is that love isn’t enough.

In Fact most relationships don’t end because a lack of love… but end because of a lack of specific relationship skills.

Watch this 10 minute video and you will have a better understanding some critical relationship skills and what happens if you don’t have them.

Almost all relationship problems are really communication problems – think about this idea for a minute, review some of your past upsets, augments and misunderstandings and ask yourself...

… If you and your lover had better communication tools and skills would it have turned out very differently?

If your answer is ‘YES’ you are in the right place… because you can avoid… or solve most relationship problems by improving your communication skills.

Dear Friend,

How’s your relationship going? 

My guess is that you’re here because your relationship is in some sort of trouble. 

Maybe even big trouble…

If so, you are not alone!  Most couples experience roadblocks at some point in their relationships… and unfortunately, many relationships end when “it gets too hard.”

Does any of this sound familiar:

You love this person so much… it feels like you’ve tried everything in your power to work through the conflicts… to tend to hurt feelings… to clear up the misunderstandings and  

… but in the end… You don’t feel heard.  You don’t feel understood.  You don’t feel valued. You do feel like you’re going around in circles and everything you try just seems to make it worse… leaving you feeling alone, hopeless, helpless, confused, frustrated, maybe even desperate… but you don’t know how to get back to the good stuff. 

You end up asking yourself some painful questions. Why doesn’t your partner understand you?  Why can’t they hear you?  Why aren’t they listening to you?  How come they just don’t get you anymore?  They used to – it was so good!

Listen, most relationships start out great, with plenty of romance, passion, and connection… all that juicy new-relationship energy! 

You think: this is so awesome! Your conversations just flow – you can talk about anything and everything all night long. 

Then, as the relationship evolves, it becomes more complex.  The issues you have to deal with change from “what movie to go to” or “where to eat out”… to bigger, more difficult issues like your careers, children, in-laws, ex’s, pets, money, sex life, jealousy, communication and, well, you get the idea.

Slowly but surely, the communication skills that worked in the beginning aren’t working…those skills are no longer enough to navigate and negotiate your relationship’s increasing challenges. 

As communication gets harder, more strained and emotionally charged, the list of topics you want to avoid talking about start piling up… and your communication starts to fall apart.

Everyone knows that when communication starts to break down – so does the relationship...

This happens to the best of us. The important thing is what you choose to do about it.

You are a strong, capable, independent, intelligent and loving person… so why can’t you figure this out… how come you can’t make this work? 

Take a deep breath and relax…

Your next step is important, possibly even critical to the future of your relationship.

In life… and in relationships… either you let your problems become bigger than you, or you grow and become bigger than your problems.  

Some people let these problems destroy their relationships, while others take action.

"We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift."  

C. S. 
Estes Park , Colorado

Action is not for the timid.   

This is not for the people that want to continue to be the victim in their relationships. 

This is not for the people who want a “quick fix”… that really is just a short-term manipulative trick to only makes things worse in the long run. 

Very few people know the secrets of how to stop the downward spiral, how to turn their relationship around... how to communicate in a way that can save the relationship... and how to bring back the good stuff…

...remember staying up all night talking about anything and everything!

...remember staying up all night… when there wasn't a whole lot of talking?  just lots intimacy, romance and passion!

…remember feeling mutual love, appreciation and affection!

…remember how being in love made everything better!

…remember being excited about the future you two shared!

You can have it all back!  I’m not saying it’s easy, but it is worth it! These are the relationship success secrets they never told us!

“… I now feel more connected and
 appreciative to my beloved than ever.”

“Truly transformational -- I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative to my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love are stronger than I imagined they ever could be. I am grateful.” 

 Jerome
Golden, CO

The foundation to a great relationship is great communication.

Great Communication = Great Relationship…

Poor communication = Poor relationship… 

Here’s another way to say it:  what you CAN talk about... and... what you CAN’T talk about… shapes your relationship… it’s the key to trust, openness, honesty, and intimacy.

Don’t get me wrong, I know that having chemistry… and friendship… and a great sex life… along with many other factors also contribute to a great relationship… but the number one key is great communication!

And on the other side: money issues, jealousy, loss of passion and intimacy, infidelity, children, work obligations, ex’s and in-laws… all can contribute to the stresses of a relationship… but again, if you know how to talk through it – you can get though it.

Think about this painful fact: “most relationships don’t end because of a lack of love; they end because of a lack of communication skills.” 

As your relationship faces increasing challenges and demands – your communication skills also need to improve and expand. Basically you need new skills to face the new challenges.

What you may not know (or at least might have thought of it this way before) is that almost all relationship problems are communication problems.

This is really, really, really important… so let me say that again.

Almost all relationship problems are really communication problems.

So, if you can transform the way you communication, you can solve most of your relationship problems.

Got it?  Good!  

As one of my mentors once said…

“Change the way you communicate and you can change your relationship with anyone.” Tony Robbins

 "Better Equipped to Listen to Others…"

"I think I will be better equipped to take time to listen to others' feelings as well as being able to relate to my feelings without always being defensive, and hearing the negative.  When they are probably just showing me an act of love or asking me for help."

Melissa Snow
Golden, CO

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I wish someone would have told me this long before, but I had to learn the hard way: through trial and error… lots of errors! … it cost me my marriage and two broken engagements… before I stumbled upon a better way to communicate.

Here’s a small sample of what you're about to discover…

… how to get your lover to want to listen and understand you... truly understand you - no more settling for mumbled responses followed by the unconscious head nodding…AND you get their undivided attention without having to use shame, blame or guilt... or even raise your voice... or use manipulation...

… how to get your spouse to freely open up to you and share what they're really feeling openly and honesty… no more having to play 20-questions or trying to guess what's really going on with them – this tip will instantly increase your levels of trust, intimacy and understanding...

… how to REBUILD THE TRUST in your relationship… one of the most important foundations for open and honest communication.

  
… how to bring back the passion, romance and intimacy to your bedroom. (That’s “code” for having a great sex life!!!)

… find out what causes your partner to give you the respect, appreciation and affection you desire… and increase the amount of love, commitment and support you feel on a daily basis…
  
…how to stop the attacking or defensive behavior… so common when talking about tough, important, emotional issues… discover the key to switch on compassion, support and understanding… REALLY – with this 4 step method, it’s that simple…

…how to put an end to destructive patterns like the silent treatment or dodging issues all together…

…how to spend more time loving each other and less time fighting…

…how to clear up misunderstanding in minutes - REALLY!

… how to resolve conflicts with compassion, confidence and understanding… and without compromise (now that's a pretty cool trick). No wasting hours, days, or even weeks holding a grudge, feeling hurt and misunderstood… or sleeping on the couch…

Just take a minute and picture...how you would feel being able to clearly and honestly communicate with confidence… imagine the intimacy, passion and peace you could experience in your relationship.

“It was a journey of intimacy
with myself and others…”

"Core issues that seem overwhelming and threatening to the fulfillment of my deepest needs are brought to the surface in the safe container of the nonviolent communication process.

Paul was masterful in supporting me to go beneath the surface of 'nice' behavior into knowing my 'beautiful needs' and feelings. It was a journey of intimacy with myself and others. Thank you for sharing this transformational communication tool!"

A. C.
Golden Colorado

" … because it demonstrates how
to value other people in the
 midst of arguments.”

"I had the privilege of hearing Paul Sterling speak about Conflict Resolution and Communication to West High School students.

Though there was limited time, students were given skills to help them see and ask for the feelings and needs behind conflict. Paul was great at taking real scenarios that applied to these high school students and showing them how communicating through his techniques would lead to more effective results.

In addition, the teachers and adults in the classroom were enthralled with the material. I thought about how valuable Paul's communication techniques would be in marriage and among families, where conflict tends to be the most severe.

I appreciate Paul's "Magic Relationship Method" because it demonstrates how to value other people in the midst of arguments. It teaches you how to ask questions to get at the real meaning and feeling behind emotions and words.

Families, schools, offices, etc. would all benefit from hearing about this communication process."

Mary Fusco - Denver , Colorado
Goodwill Industries

NOTE: To get the most out of this special report on relationship communication – you may want to print it out now… that way you can underline the key points – read it several times and give it to the one you love.   Print This Page

I’m going to tell you more about my discovery of this communication method, but before I do, let me tell you a little bit about myself.

My name is Paul Sterling and I currently live the Rocky Mountains of Colorado.

I’m a relationship coach, which means I’m lucky enough to get to make a huge difference in people’s lives by teaching them compassionate communication skills.

I sure didn’t start out to be a relationship coach… my first job was as a commercial fisherman in Alaska , and it was only after some deeply painful and confusing personal events in my life that I decided to make a major career change.

I went on a quest to understand why people do what they do.

I traveled around the world searching for answers to understand human behavior. And at the same time studying communication skills with the some of the leaders in the field:

• Marshall Rosenberg (creator of Nonviolent Communication)
  
  
• Richard Bandler (co-developer of NLP: Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
  
  
• Tony Robbins (creator of NAC: Neuro Associative Conditioning & author of many books including ‘Unlimited Power’)
  
  
• Robert Kiyosaki (the author of ‘Rich Dad, Poor Dad’)
  
  
• Bob Proctor (motivational speaker & major contributor to ‘The Secret’)
  
  
• Marshall Thurber (a friend and mentor of mine that was once described as an evolutionary event in our time” by the late Dr. R. Buckminster Fuller)

About 11 years ago I made it my mission to develop a simple, powerful and easy to use method of compassionate communication for couples who want to improve and empower their personal loving relationships

So based on my training in the dynamics of human behavior and communication skills, I blended the principles of Nonviolent Communication with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Systems Theory to create the ‘Magic Relationship Method’.

I have been asked to share this Magic Relationship Method with a wide variety of organizations, and individuals including:

• Naropa University (staff & professors)
  
  
• Estes Park Restorative Justice Organization
  
  
• Goodwill Industries of Denver
  
  
• The Denver School District – to work with their at-risk high school students
  
  

This program has even been taught at the Jeffco Jail to prison inmates for the past 5 years with great success.

It has also been shared in books, TV/radio/newspaper interviews, and teleseminars with people from around the world, and of course to couples, both in workshops and privately.

"I think the Magic Relationship Method will help me to keep my heart open to myself and to other…"

"The overall model (i.e., observations/ feelings/ needs/ requests and other key principles) gave me a fresh way to practice communication skills in my personal and profession situations.

David C.
 Naropa Professor
Boulder Colorado

"Everyone could benefit this training! It can be profoundly transforming of our lives and our world!…"

"What had the biggest impact on me was…

 - The formula – getting basic an practicing
 - Empty me first – getting the importance of getting to a place of being able   to hear.
 - The distinction of blaming others, self, vs. empathy

Everyone could benefit this training! It can be profoundly transforming of our lives and our world!"

Katie A.
Naropa Professor
Boulder Colorado

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So there you have it… My greatest passion is teaching compassionate communication skills to couples so people don’t have to go through what I went through… or what my parents went through… or my grandparents went through…

Okay, okay, enough about me… I just wanted you to know a little bit about what inspired the creation of this method.

Now back to you…

Compassionate, loving, open and honest communication is the foundation of every great loving relationship.

What you are about to discover is a compassionate communication method that helps couples turn their relationships around and get them back on track.

But, before I go any further or tell you anymore, please ask yourself this critical question: Is your relationship is worth saving?

I know this may sound a little blunt or harsh, but please answer this question to yourself before you continue: is your relationship worth saving?

This is a question only you can answer.

If you answered yes, GREAT! Here’s the help you’ve been looking for!

For things to get better (a change for the positive) something… or someone… has to change…

So here is the question… which of these three options are you going to try to change?

The first and most tempting is:

1)    Change your partner - good luck on that one… the more you try to change them, the more resistant they become. I know – I’ve tried!

Next is also very common:

2)    Changing partners - getting a new lover usually works for a little while, until all the old patterns and habits return and it’s back to business as usual.

The last one is the most important one:

3)    Change the way you relate with… and to… your partner - BINGO! This will give you a sense of calm, confidence and compassion… it is also the best option for creating a breakthrough in your relationship… and is what I will be covering in the rest of this special relationship report.

"I was clear on what I wanted
from my relationship but lost on
how to go about getting it…"

"I wanted to write to express my excitement with the communication approach I learned via your seminar. Before participating in your workshop, I was clear on what I wanted from my relationship but lost on how to go about getting it. 

Your seminar clarified for me not only how to clearly identify what I am seeking but how to connect it to my feelings and needs as well as to see how they influence the feelings and needs of those important persons in my life.

The important component that I was missing and that I learned via the workshop was asking for what I needed. Now, I'm able to close the communication loop. Thanks for the insights.

Regino
LA, CA

These are really important questions because they make you look at how committed you really… and what you are committed to…

As Albert Einstein said “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result.”

What that basically means is if you want a different result, you are going to have to do things differently. Simple, but not always easy.

Okay, if you are still with me, there is only one question left…

What tools and skills do you need to create the breakthrough to rebuild the intimacy, understanding and connection in your relationship? 

I’ll give you a hint: it has something to do with an incredible toolbox of super-human COMMUNICATION skills and methods.

Now, are YOU committed to doing what it takes to turn it around?

Are YOU excited about this possibility?

Great!!! 

Take a second to really imagine how calm, confident and compassionate you would feel once you can…

…turn communication breakdowns into heart-opening breakthroughs

…turn emotional upsets into loving understandings

…and turn conflicts into open, honest and compassionate conversations

What would your conversations be like if at the end of them, both of you felt heard, valued and understood? When you picture that, doesn’t it sound great? Can you feel how different your relationship would be?

"Thank You For Giving Me Tools to
Better Communicate With Others…"

"…Thank you Paul for giving me tools, not only to better communicate with others, but also to increase the quality of the relationships I have."

Darrell E. Spangler
Drake, Colorado

“I got some very "doable" techniques that instantly improved our conversations and, more importantly, our relationship…”

 "In just one session, Paul helped me see what was missing in my conversations with my daughter…"

“When she would come to me in upset for support, it usually ended in more upset.  It felt like she was trying to convince me how terrible life is and I was constantly trying to help, but to no avail.  We would end up on a collision course that left us both feeling pretty rotten. 

Personally, I was not only frustrated, but very sad.   Even though I was committed to having powerful conversations with her, I couldn't figure out how to make that happen.  I am amazed that in just one telephone session with Paul I got some very "doable" techniques that instantly improved our conversations and, more importantly, our relationship.  

And I'm not kidding about the instant part.   I literally took what I learned in that phone call and used it right away to great success.  Through Paul's coaching and role-playing, I got the huge "ah ha" AND a stronger, more enjoyable relationship with my daughter.  What could be better than that?  Paul, thank you for sharing your gifts.”

C.V.F.
Vermont

The Magic Relationship Method will show you how to talk so your partner will want to listen, and how to listen so your partner will want to open up and talk vulnerably and honestly.

Okay before I dive into more details I’m going to give you a warning: This is not for the timid, it’s not for people who want to continue to blame their partner for all the relationship problems.  It’s also not for the people who are looking for a “quick fix” or a way to manipulate or change your lover.

If that’s what you want, I have no judgment, but I have to say that what I’m providing is not for you here.

So now here’s some Goods News – Bad News.

Bad News first – this is work… learning something new takes time, practice and effort.  There I said it: for things to change… someone has to lead the change.

Now for the Good News – you can do this… it’s not rocket science… it’s just learning (and using) some simple but very powerful principles and methods of communication.

You are not even learning a new language – just learning how to use language in a new way… to produce a new result in your relationship.

So keep going and you’ll discover what these tools and skills are… and how you can make them your own.

To help my clients better understand and master these communication skills, I wrote a book about the Magic Relationship Method called:

‘STOP… In The Name Of Love
 A Compassionate Communication
Workbook for Lovers’

… and it took me 11 years and about $11,570 to research and complete.

This book reveals how you can put an end to the confusion, jealousy, misunderstandings and other painful conflicts in your relationship...  and bring back the trust, honesty, respect, passion, intimacy, and open communication you crave from your lover… starting today!

Now you can get your hands on these secrets... without having to travel to around the world searching... or spending thousands of dollars... or years of research... or reading 200-300 page relationship books… only to find out they just don't work.

This step-by-step, easy to read book,
reveals relationship secrets like…

… what's the 'real reason' most relationships break up… it's not what you think... it's not the issues like money, jealousy, trust, infidelity, or lost passion. The answer will surprise you
(See Page 2.)

… using “B.S.W” is like bringing a wrecking ball into your relationship -- it destroys any chance of connection, cooperation and compassion with the people you love...
(Page 7.)

… how to know when talking about important issues… or for that matter, any issues… is a total waste of time… and what to do about it. Both you and your partner will laugh and relax once you understand about 'Mistake 4'.
(Pages 22 - 24.)

… no matter how tempted you are to give your lover any advice or any suggestions… STOP - understand this rule first! It will save you tons of wasted time, energy and heartache.
(Page 25.)

… how to end arguments before they start… implement the rule in the middle of page 33 and you will be amazed at how much more relaxed, open and honest your conversations become... Easily creating increased feelings of harmony, connection and understanding... while eliminating stress, drama and upsets.

… a communication system so powerful it works with troubled teens, prison inmates, university professors, therapists and couples… lots and lots of couples.
(Starts on Page 2.)

… why three different people can have the exact same experience… but each person ends up feeling totally different about it. This information is extremely important for ending arguments in a way that everybody feels heard, understood and keeps their self-esteem. Cool trick…
(Page 14.)

… the 'Five-Week Plan' to turn in your relationship around. Do these uncomplicated exercises daily, for 7 minutes and watch a radical improvement in the amount of love, trust, and open/honest communication you experience daily. (Page 30.)

… how to talk about emotional issues without making your partner angry or defensive… even when you're talking about something that they did that hurt your feelings. Very dangerous territory. (Page 12.)

… when asking for what you want, using this secret will draw them in and make them want to give it to you… not using it can piss them off and push them away! (See Page 9.)

I have also included a second eBook where you'll discover a 4-step communication method for creating almost instant with anyone and bridge the communication gap between you.

When Naropa University , in Boulder Colorado , wanted their professors, counselors and staff to have these relationship communication skills... they asked me to spend two very full days teaching them this relationship communication method.

Here’s what their counselors and therapists had to say about the Magic Relationship Method…

Everyone could benefit this training!

“Everyone could benefit from this training!  It can be profoundly transforming of our lives and our world”

Katie A. - Naropa University

… I could follow it step by step
 toward effective communication...

“The clarity of the model and how I could follow it step by step toward effective communication in my life and work.  Paul is a very effective facilitator and offers his knowledge, wit, skill, empathy and humor.  Thanks for a great day!”

Susan - Naropa University

… gives me a fresh way to practice communication skills in my personal and profession situations.

“The overall model (i.e., observations/ feelings/ needs/ requests and other key principles) gives me a fresh way to practice communication skills in my personal and profession situations. I think the Magic Relationship Method will help me to keep my heart open to myself and to others.”

David C.- Naropa University

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Here are some of the heart-opening, intimacy-building and trust-restoring skills I shared with them…

… a 'magical question' you can ask straightaway that will let you know, without delay, whether or not you were truly heard and understood. This is an amazing single sentence and can be a relationship saver! (Page 17.) Oh yes… this also works incredibly well with your children... and employees!

… how your mind can mess up your relationship… and your life -- ahhh, this mistake is so obvious once someone points it out. See this mistake one time and you can stop making it today! (Get the details pages 11 - 14.)

… a basic exercise that will dramatically cut down on the number of upsets, arguments and hurt-feelings in your relationship.
(Page 24.)

… how to take the first step in turning your relationship around. You can get started now… and try it tonight… and be enjoying more trust, passion, and intimacy for years to come (Starts on Page 2.)

… how to fine-tune your communication skills by watching TV... using this fun and easy tip… (page 10.)

… how to master changing anything in your relationship… and in your life. Big statement, for sure… but go to page 29… get the details, try it out and decide for yourself. The four steps you need to know. Oh yeah... skip one of these steps… and instead of making things better, you end up making things worse. Ouch!

… change this 'one thing' and you can 'IMMEDIATELY CHANGE' the way you feel about any situation… guaranteed! You'll wish someone had taught you these secret years ago… (Read and then re-read pages 11 - 15.)

… need clarity and understanding in your communication? Focus on pages 16 through 21. Make sure to do the exercises that follow on pages 20 and 21…this tip alone will make the whole book worthwhile…

… a quick, easy, but slightly embarrassing exercise that will help you dramatically increase the amount intimacy and understanding you feel in your relationship. (Do this exercise as soon as you get to page 15.)

… the obvious, but almost always overlooked, hidden request people really have when they come to you, talking about their pain, frustration or upset. Understand this and it will bring your lover much closer than you dreamed possible. Screw it up and they end up blaming you for their pain!
(page 25 -- 26.)

… how to use this 4-step method when clear communication is a must... discover why 'good intentions' are never enough… you need more than good intentions to guide you, you need a proven, battle tested and simple system. (Starting page 8.)

There are so many myths out there about why relationships end.

Most of these myths sound right, but are really wrong. DEAD WRONG! It's not the lack a love... or problems like jealousy, money issues, lost passion, or even infidelity (as painful as it is) that destroy most relationships…

Okay then... what really ends most relationships?

The answer: Either you develop the ‘RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION SKILLS’ and the 'RELATIONSHIP MUSCLE' to overcome your issues... or your issues will overcome you... Often ending a perfectly good relationship.

Make sense? Said another way, 'It's not the lack of love that ends most relationships... it's the lack of specific relationship skills! Mainly communication skills."

Please read that sentence again, and think about it... Every relationship has it's issues, in fact, some of the best relationships I know have been through hell… But… they had the communication tools and skills to work through the issues that would have destroyed others relationships.

Here are some more details on the relationship communication secrets revealed in the book…

… want your love life and communication to get easier, lots easier? Eliminate 'mistake 5' from your behavior and watch intimacy come rushing back in. I hated this mistake because I used to make it almost daily in my life! (Pages 25 through 28.)

… warning: you don't wanna pay the price for not understanding these relationship rules for intimate communication. Page 6 starts uncovering the most important communication choice you ever make in relationships… and since you make it on a daily basis… it sure helps to know what it is!

… want to reduce the amount of arguments, upsets and misunderstandings on a daily basis until they are almost gone? Just paste page 31 up on your refrigerator or tape it to your bathroom mirror or both…

… a simple, powerful communication rule that will have your kids really listening to you… and as an added benefit - your lover will be amazed by your new skill! (Page 8.)

… are you a "FIXER"…? Take the test on pages 27 and 28. The answer may surprise you… oh yeah, the higher the score, the less chance you have for intimacy with the people you love and care about.

… WARNING: before you destroy a perfectly good relationship, find out more about a painful… and WRONG ASSUMPTION that will always get you into trouble and what to do about it. (Facts found on page 13.)

… check out this simple '3 sentence system' you can use to stop most misunderstandings in their tracks... before they have a chance to hurt feelings and create drama in your relationship. This is so easy to use you can be doing using it in minutes. (Go to the top of page 12.)

Sound good?  Of course it does! 

Now check out the details
of my 60-Day
100% Money-Back Guarantee

Let me start with what I'm not going to guarantee you.  I'm not going guarantee that you won't ever have any more conflicts, upsets, misunderstandings or arguments. Even the healthiest of relationships have these from time to time.

What I will guarantee you is that you will have simple, powerful and easy-to-use tools, techniques and methods to deal with these communication breakdowns calmly, quickly, confidently and compassionately.

My promise to you is this:

Order your Magic Relationship Method - book and bonuses - right now... and gain instant access to your information.

Download the book (it only takes about 10 minutes to order and download to your computer…) then print it out and put it to the test in your relationship by applying the tips tools and techniques.

You have 60 days to read ‘STOP… In The Name of Love’ and apply The Magic Relationship Method… to really understand these communication tips and tools make them work for you… to prove it to yourself – what that means is you will have the tools you need to create the open, honest and intimate communication you want… or your money back.

YES! You can read
‘STOP… In The Name Of Love’
RISK FREE!!!

If, after applying the methods for the 60-day guarantee period, your communication is not changed for the better… then just simply send me an email... and you will receive a prompt refund.

This is the simplest, easiest to use and most effective communication system for increasing trust, honesty and open communication in your relationship – that you can get anywhere... 

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“No one should be without the
Magic Relationship Method. It's like the
language of love! I like it. I love it... "

“Oh, what a relief this class is – healing is good!

I am a firm believer that the day we die is the day we stop learning! And this class is a definite learning too. No one should be without the Language of peace. It's like the language of love! I like it. I love it. I want some more of it!!! It works. I did it.”

“B”
Golden CO

Still have some questions? Check this out…

… straight-forward tip so you can stop taking it personally when your partner doesn't or can't listen to you… use this to save you from getting your feelings hurt! Not knowing this rule can make you a little (lot) crazy and add lots of drama to your life. (Page 23.)

… ahhh - don't try this at home… even though it works great at work… find out what you are doing to help your loved ones, but instead of helping, you end up driving away the intimacy you want 'EVERY TIME' you make this common mistake! (See Page 3.)

… jealousy screwing up your relationship? Here's an easy-as-pie way to discover what's really causing it and put an end to the heart-break and upsets jealousy creates. (Check-out the examples on Pages 12-13.)

… ever notice that at times, when you try to help your partner… the situation just gets worse? You may be making 'Mistake 5'. Once you know what this mistake is, avoiding it becomes child's play. (Page 25.)

… mistake #3… find out what a Pizza Parlor can teach you about the two types of the 'message assuming'... And how to put an end to stupid and unnecessary misunderstandings with this effortless trick. Your partner will love you for it.
(Pages 16-19.)

… the dumbest mistake I ever made that cost me a great relationship… if I'd only known! Master this mistake, so you don't have to make it… learn from my heartache. (See Page 7.)

… a 'Relationship Roadmap' that points out the communication pitfalls and hazards while giving you warning signs, and clear directions to increased intimacy trust, understanding and better communication… Much, much, better communication…
(Page 5.)

This system really is the missing link to great relationship communication… and yet... it's so straightforward, effective and simple.

To get yours, simply click on this link and order:

So let me summarize what you’re going to get… 

It starts with...  the step-by-step, easy-to-read, simple to use, stripped down, no nonsense ‘STOP… In The Name Of Love’ e-book… it’s like getting a ‘Compassionate Communication Toolbox for Couples’ that allows you to:

… bring back the trust, honesty and open communication

… create intimacy with the people you love

… resolve conflicts with confidence and compassion

… clear up misunderstandings in minutes

… identify… and avoid… the five most common drama creating, heartbreaking and relationship wrecking communication mistakes

This book is filled with simple exercises that are designed to make sure you "get" each tool, and make it permanent so it's there when you need it!

But wait… 

… there’s more, lots more!

Yeah I know that line was totally tacky – but I couldn’t help myself, there really is more.

Bonus 1) I will also include in your package, free of charge, a second e-book ‘The 4 Steps To Instant Intimacy’. You are getting a preview copy (so know in advance that there will still some spelling mistakes and grammar issues – but I didn’t want to hold it back anymore.)

Once I update it from it’s current draft form– it will cost $47.95, however for now – it’s your FREE BONUS when you order the Magic Relationship Method….

Bonus 2) This is a live-recorded interview (mp3 format) where I teach participants about how to overcome the 5 Mistakes. I take them, step-by-step through the 5 Relationship Destroying Mistakes…. Spending over an hour in this interview discussing the issues that plague most relationships — nothing held back or censored. 

This audio interview is in MP3 format so you can download it and listen to it from your computer… or mp3 player or iPod… or even turn it into a CD so you can listen in your car… this interview is valued at $19.95 – yours free… 

Also included is an 8-page workbook that you can use to follow through the interview as we explore...

… how to easily identify and more importantly... avoid the top 5 mistakes people experience

… what causes most communication problems

… how to clear up communication problems and bring back the love, intimacy and understanding! (some simple rules to follow)

…what prevents communication conflicts, misunderstandings and upsets from happening with the one you love

… examples you can relate to and use in your life... starting today…

More? How can it get any better than this?

Bonus 3) Discover the Hidden Driving Force Of Your Relationship Operating System (ROS). On this call I dive into the power our past can have on our present, day-to-day and our future.

I discuss how past relationships, past baggage, past experiences could be running… and ruining… your current love life. This 53 minute audio interview is also in MP3 format…

$19.95 value – free 

I've included a free 6-page workbook that you can use to follow the calls as we explore...

… how to identify baggage that is getting in the way of intimacy and understanding.

… find out why some issues are recycled, but never resolved... and why talking about them, only makes them worse.

… how to talk about the past so it stops creating upsets in the present.

… how to listen to… and talk to someone who is stuck in the past, always bringing up old stuff and is constantly creating drama.

… example’s you can relate to and use in your life... starting today.

The advantage of having both the book and the mp3 recordings of the interviews is that you can rewind, and go at your own pace, in your own style…

Do it your way… at your own speed!

How much does this investment in your relationship cost?

…less than the cost of a meal for two at a decent restaurant.

…or about the cost of sitting in a divorce lawyer’s office for about 10 minutes.

…or the cost of 20 minutes with a good marriage counselor.

                                                            ... your investment in your relationships future - just $19.95

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook-special-19_95    $19.95

"To listen and look past the
initial statement and see the
underlying pain, or need... "

"The biggest thing for me is to shut up. To listen and look past the initial statement and see the underlying pain, or need. To see many other ways to use my communication skills to solve very difficult or painful situations in everyday life shall prove to be very enlightening in my personal recovery and in my spiritual walk. Thank you!"

Patrice D.
Jefferson County Jail

… you have seen the proof that The Magic Relationship Method works...

... you have read feedback from clients from all kinds of backgrounds, in all kinds of situations, with all kinds of relationship issues, problems and challenges.

... anywhere from at risk teenagers, to prison inmates, to university professors, to counselors and therapists.

... you also heard from other couples, some on the very edge of divorce, using this method as a turning point for them… more at the bottom of this page.

… now is the time to make today a turning point in your relationship!

What you learn here is a powerful way of communicating that will help you the rest of you life… in all of your relationships.

No one can ever take these relationship skills away from you!

You will know how to handle your lover’s past baggage, reactive behavior, jealous outbreaks, and fearful issues so these issues don’t ruin your relationship.

Learning this system gives you a sense of calm, confidence, and competence in any relationship situation.

Thank you for taking the time to read this special Relationship Report.

Okay then… its decision time and the ball is in your court. Are you ready to get started today, by giving yourself the tools, stills, and support you need to succeed?

Here are two choices.

Choice A) Try to ignore the issues and hope they will get better by themselves. All the while you’re secretly settling in your relationship and giving up on your dreams. (I know this one didn't work for me.)

… Or

Choice B) Step up and commit to yourself to your relationship, say ‘YES, I’m going to do it… and I’m going to get started today… right now!

Of course you can do this… the hardest part is getting started.

So now… this opportunity that has ended up in front of you that delivers the goods.

Here’s what you do next… 

Grab your credit card, hit the order button below and study this material as if your relationship depended on it – it may!  So give yourself every possible tip, tool, technique, and all the support you need to turn it around.

Order now, while you're thinking about it.

http://www.magicrelationship.net/ebook-special-19_95    $19.95

And you can start experiencing more trust intimacy, love and understanding tonight.

With passion, purpose and possibility,

Paul Sterling
Your Relationship Coach

PS. One last thing -- I almost forgot...

As part of my guarantee to you, these valuable eBooks and audio interviews are yours to KEEP, no matter what. My gift to you, just for stepping up to the plate and giving this system a try…

PPS. There are two types of regret, the first is regret of stupid things that we did that hurt others or ourselves… and that’s painful.

But the second type of regret... it's even more painful... it’s the regret for actions we didn’t take, the chances we didn’t jump on and the opportunities that we let slip through our hands... because we let fear and doubt stop us... rather than acting courageously and going for what we really want.

Please don’t let this one slip by, I watched my parents go through a painful divorce because they didn’t have these tools, I went through one heartbreaking divorce and two broken engagements, because I didn’t have these tools… 

… the reason I’m so enthusiastic about you getting these tools is so you don’t have to go through what I’ve gone through. Please learn from my mistakes.

And… get started today… don’t wait until it’s too late! In relationships, you don’t always get another chance, so give it all you’ve got right now, while there’s still hope.

Remember you're covered, with that extremely generous 60 day – 100% satisfaction, or you get your money back guarantee. What that mean is can "test drive" this system for yourself, RISK FREE. If I don’t deliver, you get your money back. Fair enough for you?

I’ll be watching for your order and looking forward to hearing your success stories…