Have Relationship Problems and Troubles?
 

"Compassionate Communication
Skills For Couples."

You don't have to learn a new language, but you do have to learn how to use your language... in a new way.

....In a way to bring back the passion, intimacy, and connection to your relationship.

....In a way to create more trust, honesty, compassion and understanding in your relationship overnight.
 

What if you could:

Talk about important, emotional and stressful issues without taking it personally or making it personal?
Have the challenging conversations without the need for attacking your partner or defending yourself?
Instantly create intimacy and understanding with your lover?
Clear up misunderstanding in moments?
Resolve conflicts quickly, confidently and compassionately?
Talk in a way that your partner really wants to listen and understand you?
Listen in a way that even the most silent of partners want to open up and tell you everything?


Interested? Read on...
 


From the desk of: Paul Sterling
MagicRelationship.com
Estes Park, Colorado

 

Dear Friend  

Communication problems in relationships are common... too common... and often too painful.

Some of the symptoms of communications problems are…

  • little issues consistently become big conflicts
  • repeated arguments over the same subjects, like money or sex or jealousy
  • constant misunderstandings in the relationship.

Any of this sound familiar?

Another warning sign is when you try to talk about an important emotional subject and it ends up getting personal. One of you will attack and the other defend or retreat… and the whole thing ends in the silent treatment, or avoiding the topic altogether.

That used to be my relationship.

“Change isn’t always better…
but better… is always change!”

Most people want to improve their relationship to make things better. The big question is what to change… and how to change it… to make it better?

"After just the initial two-hour session of this workshop my husband and I were able to use those tools on our own upsets. We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I realized we were talking about our toughest issues with calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift."

 - C. S.   Estes Park, Colorado  


Does being able to talk to your lover in a way that causes them to stop… and really listen and try to understand you... sound good?

Does being able to listen in a way that would cause your lover to want to open up and talk to you sound good?

Can you see how it would change your relationship.... for the better… if you could talk about the tough, important, emotional issues confidently and compassionately?

There is a solution…

A communication tool box that is so powerful we teach it in prison to help inmates turn their lives around… so effective that therapists and counselors fill our classes to learn these tools so they can teach them to their clients… and so simple we teach it to young students. It's called The magic Relationship Method (in the prisons and schools we call it The Language of Peace).

This method  is based on Nonviolent Communication created by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg (cnvc.org).  It is used by mediators, lawyers, professors, therapists, counselors, and church leaders -- in any situation where there is a relationship that needs to be turned around.

Paul has blended Nonviolent Communication with his own studies in communication, neuro-linguistic process, motivational techniques, and systems theory to come up with his own, unique curriculum, The Magic Relationship Method.

The Magic Relationship Method helps in building trust... opening communication... and in developing understanding, intimacy and respect.

“Change the way you communicate and you can
change your relationship with anyone… including yourself.”

Purchase our live-recorded audio files to learn these invaluable communication tips, tools and techniques, including:

The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Mistakes

The 4 Step Method of Creating
Instant Intimacy and Understanding

The 7 Keys to a Magic Relationship.

Take your relationship from desperation to compassion,…and from distance to desire.

  • If you can see how much difference this would create in your relationship,
  • If having this deep level of understanding sounds exciting to you,
  • If you want to feel an incredible level of love, intimacy and connection with your lover

Grab your credit card and get started today.

Why not have the training, tools and skills to radically transform your relationship? 


The Live Recorded MP3 Audio Files of the
“5-4-7 Teleseminar Series”

 
Includes the Following 3 Recordings:

 "The 5 Heart-Breaking, Intimacy-Destroying and
Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes" 
 
 "The 4 Simple Steps To Creating
Instant Intimacy and Understanding"

 "The 7 Keys to a Magic Relationship"

($97.00 for all three)

Download the recordings to your computer (or even your iPod) to learn the Magic Relationship Method.

Each session includes explanation of the content and then role playing with participants, as well as real-life questions from the participants.

Just click on any one of these buttons...

Order the MP3s on Trust, Love & Intmacy!

There are complete instructions about how to download and listen to your recordings on the purchase page.  And if you run into any problems with the recordings, please feel free to call Paul at 970-586-7734.

If after listening you are unhappy with the recordings for any reason, please send us an email and we will refund your entire payment to you.
 

 
 
When you learn
"The 5 Heart-Breaking, Intimacy-Destroying and
Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes" 
you'll learn how to...
  • Identify and avoid the 5 Heart-Breaking and Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes that almost everyone makes. Learn the verbal landmines… 'trigger words' and 'trigger phases' that will almost always cause explosive reactions.

  • Avoid making Mistake #1 -- which will almost guarantee that your lover will become defensive, resistant and angry… and you may not even know that you do it!

  • Dramatically increase the amount of intimacy in your life.

  • Avoid Mistake #2… which can turn around any upset in minutes.

  • Be with your partner when their reaction is way out of proportion to whatever you said or did…

  • Identify Mistake #3, which will stop most misunderstandings and arguments in their tracks, and create new levels of clarity, connection and understanding.

  • Not make this mistake when you are trying to tell the person you love something important and they're having trouble listening. (Mistake #4)

  • Notice Mistake #5 -- how sometimes helping people isn't what they need.
     

When you learn
 "The 4 Simple Steps To Creating
Instant Intimacy and Understanding"
you'll learn how to...
  • Deal with the "hot buttons" you usually try to avoid, like intimacy, housework, money, steps, exes and in-laws.

  • Use the 4 steps to resolve conflicts, quickly, compassionately, and effectively.

  • Uncover the causes of your upsets, and not just deal with the symptoms.

  • Get your partner wanting to listen to you without trying to fix you, fight with you or flee from you.

  • Be able to hear your partner when they are upset without taking it personally.

  • Take care of yourself in a relationship where your spouse's needs for physical and emotional intimacy are different than your own.

  • To say “NO” without hurting and losing the people you love most.

  • Have a real, alive, open and honest relationship rather then a NICE (Not Interested in Connecting Emotionally) dead one.
     

When you learn
"The 7 Keys to a Magic Relationship"
you'll learn how to...
  • Implement the 7 Steps to remodeling your relationship -- to make it the relationship of your dreams.

  • Avoid taking things personally.

  • Create emotional and physical intimacy.

  • Handle your own baggage and your partner's.

  • Maintain the intimacy in your relationship.

  • Use Key #4, "Understanding doesn't equal agreement."   It's worth the course.
     

 Order the MP3s - Create a Change!


Need to know more?

Go Through The Following List Slowly... 
And Imagine What Your Relationship Would Be
Like  If You Could Easily and Confidently…

  • Increase the amount of love, intimacy, attention, affection and gratitude you both feel.
  • Discuss what's upsetting you in a way that actually creates more intimacy, understanding and healing.
  • Use 4 Simple steps to quickly turn any upset, argument or misunderstanding into compassionate conversation.
  • Create intimacy by knowing the secret of where it starts – and no, it doesn't start in the bedroom.
  • Encourage even the most silent partners to open up and speak openly and honestly.
  • Stop the back-stabbing and in-fighting around your home and create a sense of peace, harmony and cooperation.
  • Say “NO” without hurting the other person's feelings and losing your connection with them.
  • Express yourself honestly and completely even when you are angry and disappointed.
  • Learn Mistake #1, Case Building, and how it causes people to resist or refuse to talk about what's going on inside of them.

We have taught this life-changing, simple, 4-step method to a wide variety of people ranging from maximum security prisoners to priests, and from at-risk high-school students to Buddhist practitioners… and lots of individuals and couples.


Here's a partial List of the groups we've worked with:

  • Naropa University , Boulder
  • Goodwill Services, Denver
  • Bear Creek High School ACE Program
  • Lakewood High School ACE Program
  • Mi Casa Resource Center , Denver
  • The Sexual Healers Guild, Denver
  • The Ozark Mountain Women's Land Association
  • Jefferson County Corrections Facility

Who We Are…

Paul Sterling is a communication coache providing Compassionate Coaching with the intent of creating harmony in relationships.  My Magic Relationship Method is based on the principles of Nonviolent Communication created by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg (cnvc.org).

Paul Sterling Paul Sterling, after the tragic suicide of his older brother, started studying human behavior and communication. Driven by the idea “There has to be a better way!”

Will this communication method help you? Will it help you create more love, intimacy and understanding in your relationship quickly? Is it really a better way to communicate?

Want to find out without risking a single penny?

In minutes you can be downloading the mp3 live recorded interviews.  Listen to the communication coaching interview, study the tools and practice them with your loved ones for 45-days.

Then, if you are unhappy with it for any reason, send us an email and we will refund your entire payment to you quietly and without question.

We take all the risk… because even if you aren’t happy with the results you are getting you get to keep the recordings. 

To order, grab your credit card and click on the button below.

($97.00 for all three)

Send Me The Relationship MP3s!

You will be taken to our fully secure PayPal order form. Complete the form with your information then click the button at the bottom of the page. You will be taken to the site where you will be able to listen to or download the mp3s and notes.

Some things in life you can delegate, and not regret.  But... if I avoid or delegate communicating with my loved ones... if they can't get the compassion, connection, understanding and empathy they need from me... I know, from experience, they will go somewhere else.

To Your Relationship Success,

   

 

P.P.S. Insanity is communicating the same way over and over again, expecting a different result.  Arguments, intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on the job -- these are most often communication problems, either with others or ourselves. Order these audio recording today.

  •   Communicate with others and you can be successful...

  •   Communicate with yourself and you can be happy...

P.P.P.S. "These are either the best, more informative, most useful recordings you have listened to on relationships and communication or they are free...

Order these interviews, listen to them, take notes and practice what you learned. You have 45 day to put these tools to the test. If after listening and applying these tools you don't agree that they are the most useful communication and relationship skills you have ever learned, just let me know and I will gladly refund your money. 

 

 

Relationship Remodeling

“Truly transformational -- I came here in turmoil, disconnected and feeling hopeless. But through this workshop, I now feel more connected and appreciative to my beloved than ever. My inner peace and capacity for love are stronger than I imagined they ever could be. I am grateful.” 

 - Jerome
Golden, CO
 

Relationship Remodeling

Seminar


“I felt so lost and full of despair about my new relationship. I didn’t feel like any of my words were getting through.

I couldn’t convey myself in a healthy manner; this class showed me I had options to turn despair into hope.

I now feel like I have the security in my thoughts to convey myself for a brighter future with my mate.

- LaDonna Taylor
Denver, Colorado


 Seminar

Relationship Remodeling
 

"I took the workshop with my sweetheart and first of all it opened up our communications beautifully. There were a lot of things we hadn't know that got swept under the carpet that got to be exposed, as a result created more trust between us, which I already felt there was a heck-of-a-lot-of."

Dr. Lawrence Conlan
Boulder, CO

Click to listen to Dr. Lawrence Conlan's testimonial 



Relationship Remodeling

Seminar
 

"In just one session, Paul helped me see what was missing in my conversations with my daughter…"

"When she would come to me in upset for support, it usually ended in more upset.  It felt like she was trying to convince me how terrible life is and I was constantly trying to help, but to no avail.  We would end up on a collision course that left us both feeling pretty rotten. 

Personally, I was not only frustrated, but very sad.   Even though I was committed to having powerful conversations with her, I couldn't figure out how to make that happen.  I am amazed that  in just one telephone session with Paul I got some very "doable" techniques that instantly improved our conversations and, more importantly, our relationship.  

And I'm not kidding about the instant part.   I literally took what I learned in that phone call and used it right away to great success.

Through Paul's coaching and role playing, I got the huge "ah ha"  AND a stronger, more enjoyable relationship with my daughter.  What could be better than that?  Paul, thank you fo
r sharing your gifts. 

C.V.F., Vermont

Relationship Remodeling

"My Communication Will Never Be the Same…"

"I believe that my communication will never be the same because of a gift I received from him (Paul) in the Language of Peace seminar that I took."  

Greg Cortopassi
Greg Cortopassi
www.launchyourdreams.com 

Click to listen to Greg's testimonial 

Relationship Remodeling

"Better Equipped to Listen to Others…"

"I think I will be better equipped to take time to listen to others' feelings as well as being able to relate to my feelings without always being defensive, and hearing the negative.  When they are probably just showing me an act of love or asking me for help."

Melissa Snow
Golden, CO

Relationship Remodeling

"Thank You For Giving Me Tools to Better Communicate With Others…"

"Thank you Paul for giving me tools, not only to better communicate with others, but also to increase the quality of the relationships I have."

Darrell E. Spangler
Darrell E. Spangler

Click to listen to
Darrell's testimonial   

Relationship Remodeling

"I wanted to write to express my excitement with the communication approach I learned via your seminar. Before participating in your workshop, I was clear on what I wanted from my relationship but lost on how to go about getting it

Your seminar clarified for me not only how to clearly identify what I am seeking but how to connect it to my feelings and needs as well as to see how they influence the feelings and needs of those important persons in my life. The important component that I was missing and that I learned via the workshop was asking for what I needed. Now, I'm able to close the communication loop. Thanks for the insights.

Regino - LA, CA

Relationship Remodeling


"Radically Impacted My Relationships..."

"I recognize how I am constantly building cases against people. Just that alone has radically impacted my relationships."

Daniela Hess Scholl
Ithaca, New York

Click to listen to Daniela's testimonial 

Relationship Remodeling

"Life can difficult enough, and not being able to communicate effectively with loved ones, co-workers, and even yourself only adds to negative stress or tension. I have found over the last 15 months that nonviolent communication is not only convenient, but it is effective for those who work at it.

Lamont Hudson, Detention Counselor - Jefferson County Detention Facility

Relationship Remodeling

"I feel I can finally start building a relationship that was lost between my family, wife, children... "

"It's not that the communication was bad, it just wasn't there. And it's way past time for me to connect with my family. And I want to do it the most effective way possible. Me and my wife are both going through a lot right now. We will need all the tools possible to keep continuing to grow and understand each other's needs. Thank you."

Arnie S. Jefferson County Jail

Relationship Remodeling

"I think its never too late to learn and how I've been communicating this far in my 44 years has not been working, but I had no tools and no experiences or examples in which to learn of or to refer to..."

J.P. - Jefferson County Jail

Relationship Remodeling

"Families, schools, offices, etc. would all benefit from hearing about this communication process…"

Mary Fusco,
Goodwill Industries
Denver, Colorado

     
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