“Tantra sessions with Paul Sterling are transformative and have shifted my energies, self-image, and openness to love and life in a most positive way. Paul is impeccable in his approach. I have never felt safer.”

J. Boulder, Colorado

'A Holistic Tantra Session'

A session normally lasts about two hours, but there is nothing normal about these Tantric Sessions. Each one is different, unique and designed to meet your specific desires and needs.

We start with a conversation about what you want from your session which can range from

•  a desire for increased awakening and awareness of your body, your sensuality and your desires...
   
• to a deeper and richer access of your feeling and emotions...
   
• to becoming more available to your lover and to your life...
   
• to healing from some past trauma or heart break.

Next we talk about our boundaries.... both yours (which are always respected) and mine (I’m in a committed, loving monogamous relationship).

Then there is a heart opening and body awakening sensuous tantric massage that includes tantric touch for increased awareness and access to your senses, your feelings and your emotions.

There will also be some tantra coaching, exercises and practices to help you intensify your awareness of your body and all its sensations.

These exercises and practices include special breathing and sounding techniques that can be used to control, intensify and prolong orgasmic pleasure.

If you can see the benefits for you and your life, if you hear a totally different way of being with your sexuality calling to you, if this experience is something that pulls at your heart, then give me a call and lets set up a session for you.

Please call well in advance as I travel a lot and it sometimes takes a couple of weeks to find time in the schedule.

Tantra Teachings and Private Tantric Sessions Available In:

• Estes Park, CO

• Boulder, CO

Some Benefits For Women:

• Experience more love, intimacy, sensuality and connection in your relationships and your life
   
• Heal your heart and open yourself to feel a much deeper level of love and intimacy
   
• Learn specific exercises, practices and positions to intensify and prolong pleasure
   
• Open up and awaken your Divine Femininity, sensuality and set your passion free, experiencing waves of pleasure...
   
• Forgive and let go of the past, be present and create new possibilities for your future
   
• Intensify your ability to really be "IN" your body and 'FEEL' your feelings, including your sensuality, sexuality and passion
   
• Reconnect with your desires and ask for what you really want in the bedroom (and in your life)… in a way your lover will be overjoyed to give you what you want
   

  "My work with Paul was extraordinary. His honoring of me, as a female whose journey has been a very traumatic one, allowed me to open to loving and trusting touch. His ability to hold presence has deepened my personal journey into knowing who I am and what I am here to share with my fellow humans. If you are ready to feel more deeply your own truth that is stored in your body, then Paul's work can support that opening, and you can be blessed in your desire to know more of yourself." B. Eldorado, NM

   

  ““Tantric massage, a new adventure for me. At first, I am shy, reserved, somehow uncomfortable, but that quickly reverses under Paul's gentle and safe instruction. Paul is not only a beautiful Man , but a conscious Human Being devoted to the Sacred Feminine as a modern Knight to serve and remind us women of our Divinity through our sexuality. Bless his Heart. That's what we most long for...secretly. All his gentle gestures, moves, intentions are carefully outspoken so no feeling of violation, nor invasion rise up. Candles burn, music plays softly. The sacred space is felt. Quickly my body relaxes. He gives me space to let go. And I get out of my mind to embrace fully the Feeling. It's all for me. Just for me. I am in heaven. My body starts to response rapidly and I surprise myself as I go with the flow. A deep sense of being met, respected, supported and HONORED in a Loving, Sacred and Safe way. A DIVINE experience, I wish most woman could experience Tantra at least once to remember their own GODDESS within... NIRVANA! Thank you Paul.” P. Santa Fe, NM

   

  “As someone with little previous experience with sex and sexuality--and carrying a host of insecurities because of it--I was highly tentative and nervous going into my first session. I wasn't sure what to expect, wasn't sure if I'd really feel safe, wasn't sure if I'd really be able to let go of those insecurities long enough to truly give myself over to the experience. It seemed extremely chancy to my risk-averse mind. My concerns turned out to be absolutely groundless. Paul treated me with such loving compassion, and I felt safer, more respected, and more honored as a person and as a woman than I could have imagined. I left the session feeling cleansed of so much emotional dead weight, as if years of old fears and hurts that had been frozen into my body had been released and relieved of their power, and with a sense of my own sexuality--and my right to enjoy it--bursting into joyful new life. I am incredibly glad I took that risk, and I would recommend Tantra sessions with Paul to anyone, without hesitation.” K. Santa Fe, NM

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Some Benefits For Men:

• Discover easy and powerful practices to prolong and intensify your pleasure and your lover's pleasure. Including exercises that use breath, sound and touch to convey your love
   

• The secrets to awaken her passion, while nurturing, honoring and pleasuring her (including Sacred Spot Massage)
   

• Understand the how to access and embrace Divine Masculine
   

• Learn specific exercises, practices and positions to intensify and prolong pleasure
   

• Communicate love and healing with your eyes, words and touch
   

• Control and delay your orgasmic energy in the bedroom
   

• Feel more confident, competent, compassionate and alive in the bedroom
   

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Some Benefits For Couples:

• How to talk about what you both want in a way that causes your lover to want to give it to you
   

• Bring the Secrets of Sacred Sexuality, ceremony and celebration into your bedroom
   

• The secrets to really relaxing and receiving without trying to give back
   

• Learn specific exercises, practices and positions to intensify and prolong pleasure
   

• How to reawaken the passion, desire and aliveness in your relationship
   

• Using your breath, your voice and your touch to help you open your lover's heart and connect with them
   

• Getting rid of guilt, shame, embarrassment, duty and obligation from your bedroom... and bring back innocent sensuous exploration
   

• Discover your lover's love language and increase the amount of love
  and connection
   

• Using your voice, breath and visualizations to enhance the quality... and length of your orgasm
   

• and more...
   

  "It’s just hard to put into words what we experienced. We learned so much from our experience with you and Julianne, and the results were immediate... so much more than I ever dreamed of. We are learning to connect at a higher and more emotional and spiritual level which we are carrying to not only to our sex life but our every day relationship.  Hard to believe that after 30 years we still have so much too learn and room to grow. Very exciting. I've really enjoyed and am having fun learning what you have taught my wife, she has been a good teacher. I think she feels the same about me. Looking forward to working with you again, both as a couple and individually. Can't wait to see what we can learn and grow from next."                                   H & K, Florida

   

  “We were both new to Tantra, but Paul made me and my partner feel so comfortable. He helped facilitate and expand our ability for intimacy as a couple, and he personally helped me learn to give more quality attention to my lady.  Our couple's session with Paul opened the door for us to explore our sexuality together - as a couple. Our relationship now has more freedom, adventure, and permission for passion! Thank you, Paul!" C + S Boulder, CO

   

  "Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for such a wonderfully healing Tantra Session. I feel more open sexually and more connected to my partner. I want to explore more and take my time to enjoy. All the senses and chakras have been opened wide. NAMASTE"  J. Santa Fe, NM

   

  “I was a bit apprehensive when my husband gave me a tantric massage session with Paul as a gift. But Wow! Paul was insightful, passionate, caring, energetic and very professional. I walked away looking at the world with new eyes. Thanks Paul!" C. Lyons, Colorado.

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“I arrived to my session stressed out from a snowy three hour drive and getting pulled over by a cop because I was late and speeding.

Being new to Tantra, I was nervous on top of the stress. Paul created a safe container and was professional and compassionate. During our time I found my voice to experience greater pleasure without guilt or shame.

I also learned how to move energy in my body and I felt free from my fears around making money. The result, was pure bliss and gratitude to the Universe.

The next day I awoke full of love for myself and spent the entire day appreciating my body, mind and spirit. Two days out and life continues to feel more sensational and I’m looking forward to being able to access this energy whenever I need it.”

S. Granby, CO

"Paul is a practitioner with standards of incredible integrity, boundaries and compassion. He worked with me to accomplish exactly what I wanted to achieve. He created a beautiful, sacred and extraordinarily safe space for me to become more of who I am, helping me to access my true divinity. 

I left with my heart more open and as a result, my ability to take in more of life has expanded." This is true and amazing after 25+ yrs of keeping my heart closed off, I feel myself feeling more for men, a level of compassion that I honestly don't think I felt before. 

It brings tears to me eyes just thinking about what I've missed for years.    What a gift I gave myself that day by coming to you. Blessings,"

 M. Tucson, AZ

“Paul Sterling has the capacity, so essential to sacred sexuality, for holding safe space.  He has a wonderful presence and I experienced the gift of his stillness.  I deeply appreciated the sense that there was no rush and nothing we had to accomplish.  Time stopped.  Pressure stopped.  Being in the holy field of grace is all that remained.”

S. Eldorado, NM

“Paul, I just wanted to thank you for your tantric work with me in our session. You held a space for me that was safe and sacred which helped me feel comfortable touching whatever emotion and energy came up for me during our work together.

The session did not go the direction my conscious mind wanted it to go but obviously to some deep work that needed to happen on another level releasing old pains and emotional scares that needed to be removed to allow my heart to be more fully open. Again, I just wanted to thank you for making me feel so safe and accepted just the way I was – tears and all.

T. Longmont, CO

“… I wanted to make sure you knew how GRATEFUL I was & am for the experience you gave me -- full of pleasure, introspection & healing catharsis...

I came home with a huge appreciation for my husband and the ways he's always been SO deeply present & honoring of me. And of course, he couldn't help but notice that I looked like a radiant, (yes, somewhat disheveled but in that yummy post-orgasm way) goddess when I walked through the front door! ”

L. Santa Fe, NM

“As a Licensed Massage Therapist and Certified Theta Healer I work with 'Energy Flows' daily. I have been on a journey to heal myself, as well as facilitate others 'healing'.

In my session with Paul, I was honored by a professional who held the 'Positive Male Energy' through put my session on a Sacred Space. All during the session with Paul I was able to feel safe, protected, open to my releases and my Wild Women came out to express herself in a beautiful and truthful way and I felt whole again as I was respected, honored and supported in a loving and Sacred Space.

Many blessing Paul. I honor you and thank-you for doing your work in Santa Fe”

K. Santa Fe, NM

I was a bit nervous when we entered the room, but I found it safe and chose to seize the courage to find out what was beyond my previous scope of knowledge and understanding. I felt an opening, and I expunged lots of ju-ju which no longer serve me.

What is out there is magnificent; I wonder how I could have missed this opportunity for decades, as though I've just gone diving for the first time in a vast, colorful ocean, a world never before revealed to me.

I will continue with this work, because it directly addresses the intricate, unique ways my body has stored memories which I choose to no longer hold, memories of rape and victimization. Now I know there's a world of good out there, and I am empowered and open to love. There are concepts I was previously not aware of, and today, I am increasingly free to take steps of great magnitude. I am truly inspired to find out what else I've been missing!”

P. Santa Fe, NM
 

“I enjoyed our session so much and I am still reverberating from the beautiful after effects...thank you thank you!

Also, your message on my voicemail was incredibly perfect timing. I was in the midst of a heart opening meditation kind of day and your message was so very helpful in navigating the wide open sensations...thanks again for being so in sync with the universe; I appreciate you very much. ~namaste"

T. Atlanta, GA

“I decided to work with Paul, needing to reconnect with myself.

 At first I was quite nervous and unsure if I wanted to proceed.  Starting this process I was filled with fear and uncertainty, Paul took the time to talk to me and make me feel safe, and I decided to go forward.

The experience was truly transforming to me. I was able to connect to parts of myself that I had closed down many years ago, along with that connection came tears and joy I felt like I was welcoming home an old friend. 

I felt as if I was finally whole embracing and accepting my full body and spirit. After years of talk therapy this was the perfect way to really connect with my body it is no longer the enemy!! I felt more alive!! Transformative experience!!

V. Denver  CO