{"id":439,"date":"2010-04-28T12:01:22","date_gmt":"2010-04-28T19:01:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/?page_id=439"},"modified":"2011-10-26T19:13:51","modified_gmt":"2011-10-27T02:13:51","slug":"video-1","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/video-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Video #1 &#8211; The Relationship-Wrecking Cycle\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<table style=\"width: 480px; height: 1213px;\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" width=\"479\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000080;\">The Relationship-Wrecking Cycle\u2026<\/span><\/h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium; color: #000080;\">4:43 minutes<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><object classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" width=\"445\" height=\"364\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/g-HXqk3tX64&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0&amp;border=1\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"445\" height=\"364\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/g-HXqk3tX64&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;rel=0&amp;border=1\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\"><\/embed><\/object><\/p>\n<div class=\"media\"><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home?status=PS @Relationships is giving away a series of relationship videos http:\/\/magicrelationship.net\/videos.htm for free. You need to check it out\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/all-images.s3.amazonaws.com\/prebf-uvideo-twitter.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000080;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n<p><script>(function(d, s, id) {\n  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\n  if (d.getElementById(id)) {return;}\n  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\n  js.src = \"\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/all.js#xfbml=1\";\n  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\n}(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk'));<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"fb-comments\" data-href=\"magicrelationship.net\" data-num-posts=\"3\" data-width=\"400\"><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; color: #000080;\"><strong>In this video:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Have you ever noticed that the people you love the most\u2026 can be the most difficult to talk to? Especially when the issues you want to talk about are important, impactful and emotional!<\/li>\n<li>Why the people you love the most\u2026 can be the most difficult to talk to\u2026 and what to do about it.<\/li>\n<li>Compassionate communication tools to couples. Like having a relationship toolbox to help you resolve conflicts, clear up misunderstandings, talk about important\/tough issues without taking things personally are making them personal.<\/li>\n<li>The one thing everybody wants change in their relationship. You&#8217;ll be surprised when you discover what it is and what it takes to change it.<\/li>\n<li>What&#8217;s blocking you from having the relationship of your dreams\u2026 and how your past is controlling your future.<\/li>\n<li>Discover what wrecks most relationships\u2026 and more importantly, how you can avoid falling into this trap.<\/li>\n<li>Uncover the cycle that destroys relationships and discover how to turn it around.<\/li>\n<li>Applying the principles of nonviolent communication to your relationship.<\/li>\n<li>The secrets I stumbled upon by studying nonviolent communication and what that has to do with creating a great relationship.<\/li>\n<li>What everybody wants from their relationship.<\/li>\n<li>What one key thing everyone wants.<\/li>\n<li>What&#8217;s the one thing you need to change, if you want your relationship to change (most couples never understand this. And it costs them their relationship!)<\/li>\n<li>What controls whether or not, your relationship will become a loving and compassionate success&#8230; or a heartbreaking and painful failure (you gotta know this)!<\/li>\n<li>The hidden power your past relationships have over your current love life\u2026 I your history is controlling, and maybe wrecking and ruining your future.<\/li>\n<li>How to break free of destructive patterns in your relationship.<\/li>\n<li>The three things people try to can change to save their relationships\u2026 two of them backfire and end up destroying your relationship and the only one that really works.<\/li>\n<li>Going from a relationship disaster\u2026 to becoming a relationship coach.<\/li>\n<li>How your vision of the relationship effects the relationship\u2026<\/li>\n<li>The real reason most relationships come to a painful and unnecessary ending\u2026 and what you can do prevent it\u2026 you are not going to learn this anywhere else.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: medium; color: #000080;\"> <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: medium; color: #000080;\">Next Video:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/relationship-videos\/video-2\/\"><strong>Video #2 &#8211; Relationship Problems<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<table style=\"height: 636px;\" width=\"520\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Access more  FREE Relationship Stuff:<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Just enter  your first name and<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>email  address in the form below<\/strong><strong> for instant access<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>to more great relationship stuff!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/images\/3.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"108\" height=\"50\" \/><\/h3>\n<table style=\"height: 320px;\" width=\"509\">\n<tbody>\n<tr style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<td>\n<form action=\"http:\/\/www.mcssl.com\/app\/contactsave.asp\" method=\"post\"> <input id=\"merchantid\" name=\"merchantid\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"74347\" \/> <input id=\"ARThankyouURL\" name=\"ARThankyouURL\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/thanks-for-registering\/\" \/> <input name=\"defaultar\" type=\"hidden\" id=\"defaultar\" value=\"510884\"\/> <input id=\"allowmulti\" name=\"allowmulti\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"1\" \/> <input id=\"visiblefields\" name=\"visiblefields\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"Name,Emai1\" \/> <input id=\"requiredfields\" name=\"requiredfields\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"Name,Email1\" \/><\/p>\n<table id=\"table3\" align=\"center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><strong><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma; color: #373737; font-size: x-small;\">First<br \/>\nName: <\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #373737; font-size: x-small;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma;\"> <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><input id=\"First Name\" name=\"Name\" size=\"20\" type=\"text\" \/><\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><strong><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma; color: #373737; font-size: x-small;\">Primary<br \/>\nEmail: <\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<td><strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><input id=\"Primary Email\" name=\"Email1\" size=\"20\" type=\"text\" \/><\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><strong><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: x-small;\">Confirm<br \/>\nEmail: <\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<td><input id=\"Verify Email\" name=\"verify_email\" size=\"20\" type=\"text\" \/><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td id=\"submitpad\" style=\"text-align: center;\" onmousedown=\"this.style.backgroundColor='#009900'\" onmouseover=\"this.style.backgroundColor='#009900'\" onmouseout=\"this.style.backgroundColor='#cc0000'\" colspan=\"2\"><span style=\"cursor: pointer;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><input onclick=\"this.blur(); isValid = ft_formValidate('First   Name','','r','Primary Email','','risemail','Verify Email','Primary   Email','isMatch'); if(isValid) {   document.getElementById('form1').submit(); } return false;\" name=\"cmdSubmit0\" type=\"submit\" value=\"&quot;Instant Access Now! 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