{"id":631,"date":"2010-10-09T06:29:49","date_gmt":"2010-10-09T13:29:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/"},"modified":"2010-10-22T05:34:48","modified_gmt":"2010-10-22T12:34:48","slug":"mistake-1-case-building","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/mistake-1-case-building\/","title":{"rendered":"Mistake #1 – Case Building"},"content":{"rendered":"

“The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes” <\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

How to Identify, Understand and, Most Importantly, Avoid Them!<\/h3>\n

Relationship Communication Mistake #1, Case Building <\/strong><\/h3>\n

The first heart-breaking mistake is…<\/em>Building a Case against somebody<\/strong>.<\/strong> We think that if we just prove our point, show them how smart and right we are, just build up enough evidence about our side\u2026 then <\/strong> they will surely see our wisdom.<\/p>\n

Building a case against somebody makes them more distant <\/em>.\u00a0 We show the other person they are wrong or bad and we undermine their self esteem.\u00a0 In the long run, they’ll only want to run from you — the perceived source of their misery! <\/em><\/p>\n

So, the first question to ask yourself before you start to speak is, \u201cDo I want to build a case against them <\/em><\/strong>, or do I want to build a connection with them <\/strong><\/em>?\u201d\u00a0 And then your intent, along with \t\tThe 4-Step Communication Formula (part of the Magic Relationship Method), will guide you in building the connection you want.<\/p>\n

There are more mistakes that a person can make in their everyday \t\tcommunication, of course but you will be amazed how much of a difference \t\tunderstanding just this one mistake will shift your communication.<\/p>\n

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“The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes” How to Identify, Understand and, Most Importantly, Avoid Them! Relationship Communication Mistake #1, Case Building The first heart-breaking mistake is…Building a Case against somebody. We think that if we just prove our point, show them how smart and right we are, just build up enough evidence about our side\u2026 then […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":187,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-631","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/187"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=631"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/631\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":828,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/631\/revisions\/828"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}