{"id":1011,"date":"2011-10-10T09:55:53","date_gmt":"2011-10-10T16:55:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/?p=1011"},"modified":"2011-10-10T16:16:44","modified_gmt":"2011-10-10T23:16:44","slug":"we-need-to-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/we-need-to-talk\/","title":{"rendered":"We need to talk…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe need to talk.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This statement rarely goes well for men\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026 women rarely, if ever, say \u201cWe need to talk!\u201d<\/strong><\/em>
\nand then say something that men want to hear, like\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201cHoney, I know how much you love making<\/em>
\n love\u2026 and I\u2019m sorry that I have been ignoring your<\/em>
\n needs for touch!<\/em><\/p>\n

Please forgive me and come to bed right now.<\/em>
\n Is that okay with you?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Not very likely,<\/p>\n

So when us men hear those four words\u2026
\n—————————-
\nWE NEED TO TALK.
\n————————–
\nwell, quite honestly, we feel a chill go down our
\nspines and start looking for the emergency exit
\nwhile telling ourselves\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201cOH NO! What did I do wrong this time?<\/em><\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t going to go well for me.<\/em><\/p>\n

She may need to talk, but I need to get<\/em>
\n the hell out of here\u2026 and fast.<\/em><\/p>\n

What I need\u2026 is to get a drink, or go fishing.<\/em><\/p>\n

Or get my teeth need to be drilled on without<\/em>
\n any pain killer \u2013 until this blows over!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

How do you end the TERROR OF TALKING<\/strong>
\nand turn it around so that your lover looks
\nforward to TALKING, or at least doesn\u2019t run
\nfrom the room.<\/p>\n

Join me this Wednesday, Oct 12th and discover
\nsome of these communication secrets:<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/freecall<\/a><\/p>\n

—————————————-
\nHOW TO TALK SO THAT YOUR
\nLOVER WANTS TO LISTEN\u2026
\n—————————————-
\n\u2026 and understand you. (even about tough issues)<\/p>\n

You will also learn about the LISTENING
\nSWITCH, and what causes your lover to
\nshut down (BSW) and turn theirs their
\nears off and stop listening to you.<\/p>\n

and\u2026
\n—————————————
\nHOW TO LISTEN SO THAT
\nYOUR LOVER WANTS TALK\u2026
\n——————————————-
\n\u2026to really open up and speak honestly and
\nvulnerability. And, so they feel HEARD<\/strong>,
\nUNDERSTOOD<\/strong> and VALUED<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

These are skills anyone can learn, but few
\ndo because we were never taught them.<\/p>\n

\u2026 and much more. In fact you can get
\nthe study guide at<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/freecall<\/a><\/p>\n

Want to know more and discover some of
\nthe secrets of communication with the opposite
\nsex.<\/p>\n

This is like having a DECODER RING<\/strong> that
\ntranslates almost any message into one of
\ntwo things.<\/p>\n

An ACT OF LOVE<\/strong> or a CRY FOR HELP.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Listen as my guest this Wednesday, Oct 12th.
\n——————————–
\nTHE TURNING POINT<\/strong>
\n——————————
\nSome Simple Communication Tools to help
\nyou deal with relationship\u2019s complex issues.<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/freecall<\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Live with passion, purpose and possibility,<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Paul Sterling<\/strong><\/em>
\nYour Relationship
\nand Intimacy Coach<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

PS. I want to answer your questions on this
\ncall, so make sure to type your MOST BURNING
\nRELATIONSHIP QUESTION into the special
\nbox when you are saving yourself a space on this
\ncall.<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/freecall<\/a><\/p>\n

PPS. Keep your eyes open for the next email.
\nI will talking about WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS
\nFAIL\u2026 and what you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Not on the mail list – fix that and get access to
\nmy FREE SPECIAL REPORT and RELATIONSHIP
\nVIDEOS…<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/freevideos<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe need to talk.\u201d This statement rarely goes well for men\u2026 \u2026 women rarely, if ever, say \u201cWe need to talk!\u201d and then say something that men want to hear, like\u2026 \u201cHoney, I know how much you love making love\u2026 and I\u2019m sorry that I have been ignoring your needs for touch! Please forgive me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":187,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[334,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news","category-relationship-blog"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/187"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1011"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1011\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1014,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1011\/revisions\/1014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}