{"id":2037,"date":"2016-09-04T21:44:46","date_gmt":"2016-09-05T04:44:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/?p=2037"},"modified":"2016-09-04T21:45:04","modified_gmt":"2016-09-05T04:45:04","slug":"argue-less-love-more-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/argue-less-love-more-book\/","title":{"rendered":"Argue Less, Love More &#8211; Book Release"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>4 More Days Until My Book Release&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Argue Less, Love More - Book Release\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KPZBZs1MvN8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Have you ever noticed that <em><strong>the people you love the most<\/strong><\/em>\u2026 <strong><em>can be the most difficult<br \/>\nto talk to<\/em><\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Especially when the issues you want to talk about are important, impactful and emotional!!!<\/p>\n<p>If you said YES? Here&#8217;s the BAD NEWS. When your communication falls apart, so does your<br \/>\nrelationship!<\/p>\n<p>Now for the GOOD NEWS. When you discover how to avoid these 5 communication mistakes,<br \/>\nyou can put an end to about 80% of your conflicts &amp; misunderstandings.<\/p>\n<p>Get this book if you want to spend less time upset and arguing and spend more time<br \/>\ncommunicating openly, honestly and lovingly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-2039\" src=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"Front-Cover-3-3\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-687x1024.jpg 687w, https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3.jpg 725w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>ARGUE LESS &#8211; LOVE MORE<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n5 Communication Secrets for Couples Who<br \/>\nWant Less Pain and More Passion<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm\">http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU IF YOU: <\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Are tired of small disagreements blowing up into big fights<\/li>\n<li>Still love each other, but hate the way you communicate<\/li>\n<li>Want open, honest, compassionate communication<\/li>\n<li>Want to bring back love, trust, and intimacy<\/li>\n<li>Want less pain and more passion in your relationship<a href=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm\">http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>\u201cGet the book and study it. Understanding and avoiding the 5 hurtful mistakes Paul points<br \/>\nout in this book will help you prevent many of your upsets and arguments and bring back<br \/>\nopen and honest communication to your relationship.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Scott Catamas \u2013 Love Coach Academy, CA<\/p>\n<p>reviews from Amazon<\/p>\n<p><i class=\"a-icon a-icon-star a-star-5\"><span class=\"a-icon-alt\"><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" title=\"5.0 out of 5 stars\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/R3JLJEU6WYQPMW\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\">5.0 out of 5 stars<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/R3JLJEU6WYQPMW\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\"><span class=\"a-size-base a-text-bold\">A fresh prospective on some of the same problems.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I feel like this is a good starting point for people who are at a point in their relationship<br \/>\nwhere they might not feel connected anymore. The book gives tips and examples on<br \/>\n&#8220;how to&#8221; and &#8220;how not&#8221; to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things it talked about was something called &#8220;case building&#8221;. This is when<br \/>\nwe &#8220;make a case&#8221; against someone and tell them all the bad without really listening<br \/>\nto their reasons or their feelings.<\/p>\n<p>One of the examples was a parenting example and I found that to be really reflective<br \/>\nof how a lot of people parent, including how I was parented. So, even though this book<br \/>\nis marketed towards romantic relationships, I think the communication techniques<br \/>\ncan be used in most situations.<\/p>\n<p>The authors give TONS of exercises and practical application quizzes, and there are<br \/>\nalso videos on his website that correlate to the readings in the book so it&#8217;s a lot of<br \/>\ninformation in short book.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i class=\"a-icon a-icon-star a-star-5\"><span class=\"a-icon-alt\"><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" title=\"5.0 out of 5 stars\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/RYOI62HXVTRBD\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\">5.0 out of 5 stars<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/i><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/RYOI62HXVTRBD\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\"><span class=\"a-size-base a-text-bold\">Argue Less Love More is a 911 call for your relationship<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Paul Shares 5 easily recognizable things we all do that get in the way of being heard,<br \/>\nseen, understood and connected. Paul is super concise, compassionate and humorous.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing in this book that you don&#8217;t need. Seeing these 5 ways that my partner<br \/>\nand I have missed out on being really present with each other has re-ignighted the love<br \/>\nthat we always knew was there somewhere. I can&#8217;t wait for the next installment&#8230;!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i class=\"a-icon a-icon-star a-star-5\"><span class=\"a-icon-alt\"><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" title=\"5.0 out of 5 stars\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/RI1VPWP48AVNS\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\">5.0 out of 5 stars<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/i><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/RI1VPWP48AVNS\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\"><span class=\"a-size-base a-text-bold\">Such a good book!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Clear and simple &#8212; but challenging! There is a lot of really useful material here that<br \/>\nrequires some real attention, study, and practice. Although it is aimed at couples,<br \/>\nthe advice is equally valuable for other relationships &#8212; family and friends.<\/p>\n<p>Paul Sterling is a master and his message represents a leap in consciousness for those<br \/>\nof us striving for more love.<\/p>\n<p><i class=\"a-icon a-icon-star a-star-5\"><span class=\"a-icon-alt\"><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" title=\"5.0 out of 5 stars\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/R1AYLX4M0Z1OU5\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\">5.0 out of 5 stars<\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/i><span class=\"a-size-base a-text-bold\"><a class=\"a-link-normal a-text-normal a-color-base\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/review\/R1AYLX4M0Z1OU5\/ref=cm_cr_dp_title?ie=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01LBXLBSE&amp;channel=detail-glance&amp;nodeID=133140011&amp;store=digital-text\">Love More Do you and your mate want a smoother &#8230;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Argue Less, Love More<\/p>\n<p>Do you and your mate want a smoother relationship? Have you tried reading books and<br \/>\narticle to vague to immediately use? In \u201cArgue Less, Love More\u201d Paul Sterling succinctly<br \/>\ndistills the guidance of leading communications specialists into a user-friendly manual<br \/>\nwhich reads like cliff notes.<\/p>\n<p>After decades of counseling couples Sterling offers us the insights and language which<br \/>\nderails distancing patterns (such as \u2018case building\u2019) and gives us the language to invite<br \/>\nopenness using specific questions tailored to bridge common communication gaps.<\/p>\n<p>If you truly want to understand and be understood this quick read is a great handbook<br \/>\nof useful phrases and tools that can open your hearts to one another and build the comfort<br \/>\nand trust we all want with our mates \u2013 or children! Widely applicable. I look forward to<br \/>\nusing Argue Less, Love More with my husband and clients.<\/p>\n<p>Jean Guenther, couple\u2019s counselor for 44 years<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm\">http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/bookrelease.htm<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>4 More Days Until My Book Release&#8230; Have you ever noticed that the people you love the most\u2026 can be the most difficult to talk to? Especially when the issues you want to talk about are important, impactful and emotional!!! If you said YES? Here&#8217;s the BAD NEWS. 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