{"id":2046,"date":"2016-09-07T15:35:22","date_gmt":"2016-09-07T22:35:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/?p=2046"},"modified":"2016-09-07T16:08:20","modified_gmt":"2016-09-07T23:08:20","slug":"argue-less-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/argue-less-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Argue Less, Love More &#8211; Best Seller Adventure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever noticed that the people you love the most\u2026<br \/>\ncan be the most difficult to talk to\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Especially when the issues you want to talk about are<br \/>\nimportant, impactful and emotional!!!<br \/>\nWhat to know what is going on? \u00a0Watch this 2:30 minute<br \/>\nvideo.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iOW-0eOUUvM?rel=0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Here is the BAD NEWS: When your communication falls<br \/>\napart, so does your relationship!<\/p>\n<p>THE GOOD NEWS: When you discover how to avoid these<br \/>\n5 communication mistakes, you can put an end to about<br \/>\n80% of your conflicts &amp; misunderstandings.<\/p>\n<p>Get this book if you want to spend less time upset and<br \/>\narguing and spend more time communicating openly,<br \/>\nhonestly and lovingly.<\/p>\n<p>The book is ARGUE LESS &#8211; LOVE MORE<br \/>\n5 Communication Secrets for Couples Who<br \/>\nWant Less Pain and More Passion<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2039 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"Front-Cover-3-3\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3-687x1024.jpg 687w, https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Front-Cover-3-3.jpg 725w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU IF YOU:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Are tired of small disagreements<br \/>\nblowing up into big fights<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Still love each other, but hate the<br \/>\nway you communicate<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Want open, honest, compassionate<br \/>\ncommunication<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Want to bring back love, trust, and<br \/>\nintimacy<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Want less pain and more passion in your relationship<\/p>\n<p>You can click here and get it at Amazon &#8211;<br \/>\nwww.magicrelationship.net\/amazon<\/p>\n<p>Or you can take on extra step and get 3 amazing bonuses&#8230;<br \/>\nwww.magicrelationship.net\/bookbonus<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cGet the book and study it. Understanding and avoiding the 5<br \/>\nhurtful mistakes Paul points out in this book will help you prevent<br \/>\nmany of your upsets and arguments and bring back open and<br \/>\nhonest communication to your relationship.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\nScott Catamas \u2013 Love Coach Academy, CA<\/p>\n<p>reviews from Amazon<\/p>\n<p>**<em> A fresh <\/em>prospective<em> on some of the same problems.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I feel like this is a good starting point for people who are at<br \/>\na point in their relationship where they might not feel connected<br \/>\nanymore. The book gives tips and examples on &#8220;how to&#8221; and<br \/>\n&#8220;how not&#8221; to communicate.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>One of the things it talked about was something called<br \/>\n&#8220;case building&#8221;. This is when we &#8220;make a case&#8221; against<br \/>\nsomeone and tell them all the bad without really listening<br \/>\nto their reasons or their feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>One of the examples was a parenting example and I found<br \/>\nthat to be really reflective of how a lot of people parent, including<br \/>\nhow I was parented. So, even though this book is marketed<br \/>\ntowards romantic relationships, I think the communication<br \/>\ntechniques can be used in most situations.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The authors give TONS of exercises and practical application<br \/>\nquizzes, and there are also videos on his website that correlate<br \/>\nto the readings in the book so it&#8217;s a lot of information in short<em> book.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>** <em>Argue Less Love More is a 911 call for your relationship! A<br \/>\nquick read with immediate results.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Paul Shares 5 easily recognizable things we all do that get in the<br \/>\nway of being heard, seen, understood and connected. Paul is super<br \/>\nconcise, compassionate and humorous. There is nothing in this book<br \/>\nthat you don&#8217;t need. Seeing these 5 ways that my partner and I have<br \/>\nmissed out on being really present with each other has re-<\/em>ignighted<em><br \/>\nthe love that we always knew was there somewhere. I can&#8217;t wait<br \/>\nfor the next installment&#8230;!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>**<em> Such a good book! <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Clear and simple &#8212; but challenging! There is a lot of really useful material here that requires some real attention, study, and practice. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Although it is aimed at couples, the advice is equally valuable for other relationships &#8212; family and friends. Paul Sterling is a master and his message represents a leap in consciousness for those of us striving for more love.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>**Argue Less, Love More<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Do you and your mate want a smoother relationship? Have you tried reading books and article to vague to immediately use? In \u201cArgue Less, Love More\u201d Paul Sterling succinctly <\/em>distills<em> the guidance of leading communications specialists into a user-friendly manual which reads like cliff notes. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>After decades of counseling <\/em>couples<em> Sterling offers us the insights and language which <\/em>derails<em> distancing patterns (such as \u2018case building\u2019) and gives us the language to invite openness using specific questions tailored to bridge common communication gaps. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If you truly want to understand and be understood this quick read is a great handbook of useful phrases and tools that can open your hearts to one another and build the comfort and trust we all want with our mates \u2013 or children! Widely applicable. I look forward to using Argue Less, Love More with my husband and clients.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Jean Guenther, couple\u2019s counselor for 44 years<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever noticed that the people you love the most\u2026 can be the most difficult to talk to\u2026 Especially when the issues you want to talk about are important, impactful and emotional!!! What to know what is going on? \u00a0Watch this 2:30 minute video. 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