{"id":39,"date":"2008-03-19T10:27:11","date_gmt":"2008-03-19T17:27:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/2008\/03\/19\/relationship-triage\/"},"modified":"2008-04-08T10:19:33","modified_gmt":"2008-04-08T17:19:33","slug":"relationship-triage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magicrelationship.net\/blog\/relationship-triage\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Triage&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When someone goes into the emergency room they&rsquo;re are not interested in dieting advice or fitness tips.<\/p>\n<p>They want something to stop the pain or bleeding or, in more extreme cases, save their life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It&#8217;s similar when people come to our relationship site.&nbsp; Most couples aren&#8217;t interested in tips to fine-tune their communication skills or have happy thoughts&hellip;<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">They want something to stop the pain now, to end the hurtful conflicts and get their relationship out of crisis.<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">These people still love each other&#8230; or at least still care about each other, but they just don&#8217;t think they can live together much longer unless something changes&hellip; and soon.<o><\/o><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><b><span style=\"color: maroon;\">A Lack of Skills&hellip; <o><\/o><\/span><\/b><b><span style=\"color: maroon;\"><o><\/o><br \/>\n<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The fact is:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>most relationships don&#8217;t end because of a lack of love.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>They end because of a lack of skills.<o><\/o>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">That&#8217;s where the Magic Relationship Method comes in.<span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;\"><o><\/o><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">We take couples through 3 distinct phases to help save their relationships:<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportLists]--><!--[endif]--><span dir=\"ltr\">&#8212;&nbsp; Phase 1:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We stop the destructive, damaging and painful habits and behaviors that both partners are probably falling into.<\/span><o><\/o><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportLists]--><!--[endif]--><span dir=\"ltr\">&#8212;&nbsp; Phase 2:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We start rebuilding the trust, honesty, intimacy and understanding between the partners &ndash; which means learning a <b>new<\/b> skill set.<\/span><o><\/o><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportLists]--><!--[endif]--><span dir=\"ltr\">&#8212;&nbsp; Phase 3:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We help the couple create a new future together full of love, intimacy and possibility for whatever their shared dream may be. <\/span><o><\/o><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;\" class=\"MsoNormal\">Order the eBook &#8230; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.1shoppingcart.com\/app\/javanof.asp?MerchantID=74347&amp;ProductID=3550675\">Click Here<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><b><span style=\"color: maroon;\"><br \/>\nWhat To Do<o><\/o><\/span><\/b><o><\/o>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Study the Magic Relationship Method and you&rsquo;ll find out how to regain the love and intimacy in your relationship through communication.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>And this isn&rsquo;t just any sort of &ldquo;feel good &ndash; think positively&rdquo; frou-frou hoo-ha.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>This is a three-part system that&rsquo;s easy to learn, easy to understand, and with practice can change your world.<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The first part of the method is &ldquo;The 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes.&rdquo;<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Learn what NOT to do &ndash; what NOT to say, what to look for and what to listen for in your communication.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>We start where you have the most control:<span>&nbsp; <\/span>with the words you&rsquo;re saying.<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Next learn the 4-Step Communication Formula.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>Learn what you SHOULD say and how to say it so that you can create a connection with your beloved instead of driving them away.<o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">And finally, learn the 7 Keys to a Magic Relationship &ndash; 7 things you can do to make sure your relationship is the best it can be.<o><\/o><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><b><span style=\"color: maroon;\">Triage<o><\/o><\/span><\/b><o><\/o><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">So take the first step today:<span>&nbsp; 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