Stop… In The Name Of Love – table of contents

Filed in News, Relationship Blog on 01/28/2010 with 2 comments

Hey Everyone,

thanks for your e-mails offering support and requesting an update on the progress of the e-book.

Stop… In The Name Of Love – How to Stop the Five Destructive Communication Habits That May Be Destroying Your Loving Relationship

well here it is – at about 1:00 last night when i got because the dog had an accident…

(yeah, I know tmi)

anyway, I couldn’t go back to sleep so instead of laying in bed – tossing and turning – i finished chapter #3

the chapter on the destructive habit called;  STORYTELLING… That’s my story and I’m sticking to it…

so for your reference here is a reader’s digest form of the Table Of Contents…
(don’t worry – there is much more in the book – this is just to give you a sneak
peak)

  • The 5 Communication Habits Intro
    The ‘Real Reason’ most relationships end, fail…
    hint- it’s not what you think
  • Habit 1) CASE-BUILDING… I’m Right – You’re Wrong…
    Anything  you say can and will… be used against you…

    How labeling will destroy your relationship
    A simple way to re-connect with your lover

  • Habit 2) STORYTELLING… That’s my story and I’m sticking to it… Asking for what you want so you they want to give it
    How your stories rob you of intimacy and love.
    Why people’s stories are more important than reality
    How the stories you tell… can make your life Hell – or Heaven
  • Habit 3) MESSAGE ASSUMING…  When Mind Reading Goes Bad… The two types of messages assuming
    What causes misunderstandings and how to avoid them
    The trick the pizza guy knows, that could save your relationship
    The one question that stops message assuming in its tracks
  • Habit 4) CUP STUFFING… The Straw That Broke the Relationships Back… When to never ask for what you want… and why
    One simple question that will let you know exactly what to give your lover
  • Habit 5) The FATAL F’s… Let Me Tell You What To Do… A common mistake that will repel your partner and erode trust
    Secret recipe for juicy intimacy and rebuilding trust
  • and much, much more…

When you are done reading this eBook, you will understand where most misunderstandings, conflicts, upsets and arguments come from… and more importantly, what to do about it

With passion, purpose and possibility,

Paul Sterling

Your Relationship Coach

PS. if you haven’t already reserved your FREE COPY, do it now, before Valentines Day (after that it’s $47.95) -

… just go to http://www.magicrelationship.net/valentine

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About the Author

Paul Sterling: After 18 years as a commercial fisherman in Alaska, then the tragic suicide of his older brother, Paul took a long look at life... and then spent the next 20 years studying and teaching communication. He has spent the last 10 years focused on learning communication skills that work to create great relationships—the foundation of happiness in life. Read my blog where I share some basic communication tools, methods and skills you need to have the relationship of your dreams.
  • Meggio Omega

    Paul! YES! I’d say publish the first four chapters electronically since they’re done! Sorry bout your dog’s accident, but at least you got something good out of it. Thanks for all you do,
    Meggio

  • Sue

    Sure – release what is complete! I think lots of people would be ready to check it out. Thank you.